hrtingsobd Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 2 1/2 weeks ago I separated from my bfr of 3 years. I am really wanting to have a fling. I know that i am trying to fill a void but I have never done this before (for at least 17 years). What are the reprecussions if i were to just have sex with someone? Would I disrespect myself? Would I be better off with a stranger or a friend? Input would be appreciated. Anyone been here? I know it is not a long term solution but it sure would be nice to be held for a night instead of being on here at 4:00 in the morning! lol
barfool Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 If you think you *might* disrespect yourself then I think that you definately would. A fling is something that you have to have the utmost confidence about.
Author hrtingsobd Posted December 21, 2006 Author Posted December 21, 2006 I have not had a one night stand since college some 17 years ago and I was really drunk). A fling I think may be different....Before this last b/f and my ex of 13 years, I had a 2 month sexual relationship with a younger man of 11 years. I truly enjoyed that one.....Still do thinking about it. We ended up friends but the b/f was jealous (ironic but we broke up because of a porn addiction....amazing) so I told friend I could not see him. Thinking of looking him up somehow....lol. I don't know how I will feel until I jump in there....pun intended...lol. I am sure that I don't want a relationship but when you are used to getting sex every night....3 weeks is an eternity.
Quinch Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 ... a younger man of 11 years. I hope you mean 11 years younger than you Look up this old friend of yours and meet for coffee but don't mention the sex just yet. You'll have a better idea of what you want by the end.
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