Virtual Mike Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 So heres the deal, my girlfriend of 4 years just up and says were done. I ask what the problem is and she says "I have seasonal depression dissorder" She has been calling me once a week and texting me almost everyday. She wont tell me what her deal is, I really love her and cant make her believe that I'm not just a liar when I tell her that. Does this BITCH have another guy or what? I'm thinking so because she's using her FRANTIC-religious mom and her "FRIEND" Sara as excuses as to why she cant hang out with me and my group of friends, plus she just got a job as a waitress in a bar. Any advice would be helpful.
hollywood24 Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 Ignore her and she will most likely come crawling back. But I'm sure some other people here could give a little better and more detailed advice. But if she just up and says it's over, doesn't that make you question whether or not she really loves you?
BlueEyedSarah Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 So heres the deal, my girlfriend of 4 years just up and says were done. I ask what the problem is and she says "I have seasonal depression dissorder" She has been calling me once a week and texting me almost everyday. She wont tell me what her deal is, I really love her and cant make her believe that I'm not just a liar when I tell her that. Does this BITCH have another guy or what? I'm thinking so because she's using her FRANTIC-religious mom and her "FRIEND" Sara as excuses as to why she cant hang out with me and my group of friends, plus she just got a job as a waitress in a bar. Any advice would be helpful. So to show she loves you she just ups and leaves...yea...nice love! Try a no connection with her and see if she comes crawling back. If she doesn't then she is not worth it. Find a better girl! But best wait for better advice .
Guest Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 read between the lines buddy all the info is right there give her some support ok u know what kind of a woman she is stop focussing on YOU and see what u can do for HER ever think that maybe she's doing the best that she can't to ACTUALLY REACH OUT TO YOU sounds like a freaking strong woman to me now find ways to reach back instead of running I thought u said u loved this woman aren't u doing the same thing u said she did? hmmmmmmmmm
notmakingsense Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 So heres the deal, my girlfriend of 4 years just up and says were done. I ask what the problem is and she says "I have seasonal depression dissorder" She has been calling me once a week and texting me almost everyday. She wont tell me what her deal is, I really love her and cant make her believe that I'm not just a liar when I tell her that. Does this BITCH have another guy or what? I'm thinking so because she's using her FRANTIC-religious mom and her "FRIEND" Sara as excuses as to why she cant hang out with me and my group of friends, plus she just got a job as a waitress in a bar. Any advice would be helpful. Is there any more to this story than the above? Why do you need to "make her believe" that you love her? Has she doubted it before? Like you say, none of her excuses make much sense, after all, she was hanging out with you at one point even with her mom, friend, and job. She might be a flake or she might have another dude or she simply might not be in to you any longer. At this point, it doesn't matter. I would go no contact. You have a right to be pissed at her for flaking, so act that way. You deserve better than her.
bab Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 , I really love her ...................................................................... BITCH Gee, I can't understand why she is insecure and doubting of your love :rolleyes:
norajane Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 One of my roommates had seasonal depression. She used a special lamp each day to help her get through the winters. Perhaps you could suggest she try that.
BannaBee57 Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 Gee, I can't understand why she is insecure and doubting of your love :rolleyes: I was just going to say the same thing! Have you ever thought that maybe she is no longer interested in a relationship with you because you don't treat her that well. If you really loved her you would never refer to her as a Bitch.
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