im lost

[braez]

so ive been dating this girl for around 4 months and i like her a lot. i went away for thanksgiving and was really excited to see her when i got back, but when i finally did it was a really awkward situation. it was like she wasnt interested at all and not excited to see me, she just said hey and seemed really hesitant to give me a hug even and then went to class. it wasnt at all how she acted before the break so i figured that she was just losing interest so i asked her if she still liked me one night and she assured me she did.

 

so that was like a month ago and ever since then things have just been really weird, it just seems like she pays more attention to everyone else but me like if im talkin with some friends she'll run up and jump on all of them giving them hugs and then give me a little hug and immediately go back and talk to them. now im a pretty darn shy guy and am not the best talker when around a bunch of people and we still talk a bunch when we're alone and stuff, but i still just feel like she doesnt really like/care for me. she'll do that and then a day later seem really excited to see me and talk to me a bunch etc.

 

so things were getting a little better each week and then i was talkin to her tonite it seemed fine and i asked if she wanted to hang out tomorrow night and she seemed like she was excited and wanted to but then right after that out of nowhere said "alright well ill see you tomorrow" now usually we'll talk for a long time and have extended goodbyes i guess, but this was only after 2 minutes or so. i just cant figure it out if she still likes me or not, she does little things to make me think she does but then will do something else to make me think she doesnt. i would think she would have broken up with me by now if she had lost interest though. its drivin me nuts, any advice or words of wisdom are greatly appreciated, thanks

[Spinderella]

I know it is hard, but, you are giving this girl way too much power over how you feel. Do other things, maybe even see other girls, until she decides what she wants. Don't keep asking her out and anxiously awaiting her answers. Let her come to you for a change. It's okay to be shy. Lots of girls like shy guys, as long as they aren't too desperate and needy.