Guest Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Question: Lets say things are not going so great in the old sex department at home between you and the wife and one day you notice she enjoys watching female on female porn and you start to wonder maybe she is questioning her sexuality. If your man asked you that and you knew he always wanted to know the truth, because they are strong enough to deal with the truth would u as a woman, if you had being questioning yourself tell him? For me, if a woman can tell me the truth, there is nothing, even if she cheated on me, I could forgive and move past it. Anyone ever face something like this?
whichwayisup Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 Just because she's watching lesbian porn doesn't mean she's thinking of switching teams. Lesbian porn is hotter than straight sex between a man and a woman...(I think most women here on LS would agree with me on that one!!) BUT, if it is interferring in your sex life, then that's a problem. It would be like if you preferred jerking off to porn instead of having sex with your wife. IF I were questioning my sexuality and wanting to experience another woman I would definately tell my husband. It's not something I want to try though, fantasy is good enough.. Talk to her and find out what is going on inside her head. Reassure her of your love and faith in the marriage.
StayClose Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 If your wife is watching woman on woman porn it may be time to suggest having a threesome.
littlekitty Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 Just because she's watching lesbian porn doesn't mean she's thinking of switching teams. Lesbian porn is hotter than straight sex between a man and a woman...(I think most women here on LS would agree with me on that one!!) BUT, if it is interferring in your sex life, then that's a problem. It would be like if you preferred jerking off to porn instead of having sex with your wife. IF I were questioning my sexuality and wanting to experience another woman I would definately tell my husband. It's not something I want to try though, fantasy is good enough.. Talk to her and find out what is going on inside her head. Reassure her of your love and faith in the marriage. Well said WWIU! It is hot, but it doesn't make you a lesbian for wanting to watch it!!
Mustang Sally Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 ....going on with her that is making you feel she is questioning her sexual orientation? Because I must emphatically agree that watching/fantasizing about/heck - probably even participating in (some people are just born to experiment, you know) a little lesbian sex does NOT make one a lesbian. I'm pretty certain there's a bit more to it than that, although not a lesbian, myself. Anyone with personal experience want to chime in, here? Tell me, is this really all there is to the story?
elijahBailey Posted December 22, 2006 Posted December 22, 2006 Might be the same reason why men enjoy porn. It's just fantasy. Married sex gets real dull after a while. Women need to get off sometimes, just like men. Just take it easy on her. The best way is to talk to her and tell her that you're opened to suggestions. Honesty is way to go man.
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