chryssy83 Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Okay, so what if it's not me? What if he's just afraid of marriage? How would I even know? In cases where there is a fear of commitment, do the people ever realize they have made a mistake and come back? Do people ever break up and scare themselves into knowing that this person is the right one? How do I know if his issue is with marriage or with me?
blind_otter Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 You don't know, and can never know unless he explicitly states that he has a fear of committment. You would do better for yourself if you stopped focusing all your energy on understanding him or the breakup. Focus on yourself, making yourself happier and making yourself feel more whole. I guarantee that the answer to those questions will help you a lot more than questions about him....
ThatAin'tRight Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 People always realize the mistake, but it's always too late because the person they left usually goes on to find some one better who knows without a shadow of a doubt how they feel and what they want from him/her. The break up has happened, going over every element is as much a waste of time as buying the first few seasons of "Cop Rock" and actually watching them. Keep yourself occupied and drop the idea that the realization of a mistake will be made and get on with your new life. Even though it's depressing and sad right now, this new life may be the best gift you'll get this holiday season. Think about that.
hollywood24 Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 People always realize the mistake, but it's always too late because the person they left usually goes on to find some one better who knows without a shadow of a doubt how they feel and what they want from him/her. The break up has happened, going over every element is as much a waste of time as buying the first few seasons of "Cop Rock" and actually watching them. Keep yourself occupied and drop the idea that the realization of a mistake will be made and get on with your new life. Even though it's depressing and sad right now, this new life may be the best gift you'll get this holiday season. Think about that. Yup, For example, in my situation as much as I think about how big of a mistake I made, it will NEVER EVER do me any good. Nothing will change what happened. So take our advice.
Guest Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 does to our memories eh? so yer question was: does my ex have a fear of commitment? ok, now i wonder who was spending 19 years chasing u down? now why would someone do that? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm just to be clear - nope..no fear. what about u?
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