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[blueyes77]

My MM called me this morning to see if I wanted to come and see him tomorrow night so we could see each other before christmas he asked me if i still wanted to talk to him since we couldnt last week what do i do i really want to get it off my chest but i dont want to ruin anyones christmas

[anatus]

I think you should avoid seeing him before the holidays. Give both of you time to think things through. I know you want to get things off your chest, but what's 1 week after all you've been through. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and give him more time to miss you. Don't make yourself too readily available because men seem to want what is out of their reach. I guess that's one lesson I have learned the hard way.

 

Hope you enjoy your holiday and try to focus on other things - your family, friends, and yourself. Distance always seems to heal my heart. When things get rough and I need to get away, there's no place like Cancun.

[Guest]

I Will Never Understand That...something Out Of My Reach Means - Not Within My 'shere' Of Obtaining....its Like Looking At A Spiderman Comix And Thinking I Could Be That Spider Dude - But It Ain't Gonna Happen So U Don't Go For It

 

If Someone Dangles Something Just Out Of Yer Reach Its Kinda Like When A Child Starts To Walk And U Keep Jingling The Bells Making The Child Walk Towards U, And Never Giving It To Them - Ever See Someone Do That - That's Where A Parent / Child Power Thing Starts - I Believe In Treating Everyone Equally - And Not In A Reward / Punishment Style...that Just Screws Up People In The Long Run

 

U Know Like When A Guy Really Digs Ya And Asks A Zillion Times For A Way To Contact And Will Even Take The Lead And The Reply Is Something Like - "when A Man Does That He Becomes A Boi And All Clingy'

 

Counter Productive In My View - Maybe That's Why I'm Single And Registering On Dating Sites! Lol

 

My 2 Cents