Rooster_DAR Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Men are easy...give them sex, and don't nag.
Author yousaveme Posted December 20, 2006 Author Posted December 20, 2006 Typical MAN Men are easy...give them sex, and don't nag.
Rooster_DAR Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Typical MAN Typical Rooster you mean...
stillhere Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 BH, i wish it was that simple!! My MM is worse than me when it comes to the emotional stuff!!! See, we are able to communicate on a level that he is not used to. So he opens the flood gates when i ask him what's wrong. He shuts down to the world, except me. This is completely uncharacteristic of him, so i don't know what to do!! I've never seen someone so strong and stubborn, become so weak in a short amount of time. I've told him too many times to count that he confuses me. He's the first one to usually bring up our relationship problems. Explain him to me please!!!
Author yousaveme Posted December 20, 2006 Author Posted December 20, 2006 I have to hear this...I was going to go lay down...But this might be good. BH, i wish it was that simple!! My MM is worse than me when it comes to the emotional stuff!!! See, we are able to communicate on a level that he is not used to. So he opens the flood gates when i ask him what's wrong. He shuts down to the world, except me. This is completely uncharacteristic of him, so i don't know what to do!! I've never seen someone so strong and stubborn, become so weak in a short amount of time. I've told him too many times to count that he confuses me. He's the first one to usually bring up our relationship problems. Explain him to me please!!!
stillhere Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Yes, please do explain!!!! This man has me so confused. With me, he is not the person the rest of the world sees. I'm not complaining, i'm just dumbfounded!! I would just like to get inside his head. He tells me that he's not hard to figure out, yet i don't think i will ever understand him.
bonehead Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 BH, i wish it was that simple!! My MM is worse than me when it comes to the emotional stuff!!! See, we are able to communicate on a level that he is not used to. So he opens the flood gates when i ask him what's wrong. He shuts down to the world, except me. This is completely uncharacteristic of him, so i don't know what to do!! I've never seen someone so strong and stubborn, become so weak in a short amount of time. I've told him too many times to count that he confuses me. He's the first one to usually bring up our relationship problems. Explain him to me please!!! Oh h*ell that's easy!!!!!!! He will allow himself to be weak because he knows you will not hold it against him. Plain and simple. My STBDMW has seen me at my strongest and she has also seen me break down a cry like a baby. One of the few people in my adult life who has actually seen that.
bonehead Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Yes, please do explain!!!! This man has me so confused. With me, he is not the person the rest of the world sees. I'm not complaining, i'm just dumbfounded!! I would just like to get inside his head. He tells me that he's not hard to figure out, yet i don't think i will ever understand him. Ok. Im a " big bad firefighter ". I am one of the emotionaly strongest people you would ever meet. Also one of the coldest. Until Im around her. Because then I DONT HAVE TO BE!!!!!!!
stillhere Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Ok. Im a " big bad firefighter ". I am one of the emotionaly strongest people you would ever meet. Also one of the coldest. Until Im around her. Because then I DONT HAVE TO BE!!!!!!! You don't understand how good that makes me feel!!! He is the exact same way!! If he's upset, he will speak to no one. He will pretend as if the world doesn't exist. I have made him cry, and that is not him. He has never cried over a female before. You and him sound so much alike, it's scary. I knew that he loved me, but this proves it beyond a reasonable doubt. Thank you for allowing me into his head for a short period of time!!
bonehead Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 You don't understand how good that makes me feel!!! He is the exact same way!! If he's upset, he will speak to no one. He will pretend as if the world doesn't exist. I have made him cry, and that is not him. He has never cried over a female before. You and him sound so much alike, it's scary. I knew that he loved me, but this proves it beyond a reasonable doubt. Thank you for allowing me into his head for a short period of time!! Its not just about love. Its also about comfort and security
stillhere Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Its not just about love. Its also about comfort and security That is true. He has told me that he never felt so comfortable and trusting with someone before. And i feel the same way. It's just nice to know that there is no one else on this earth that he feels that comfortable with. My heart swelled when i read what you wrote:love: I have a new understanding of him, and it makes me love him that much more. I'm lucky to have him in my life, i just wish it was all of him.
bonehead Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 i just wish it was all of him. That one my dear is a whole different topic. lol
stillhere Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 That one my dear is a whole different topic. lol Yeah, i know
bonehead Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Men are SO easy to figure out, just ask a man. lol
oyster Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 [sIZE=2]HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY ! ! ! All you have to do is be: 1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father figure 6. a teacher 7. an educator 8. a cook 9. a gardener 10. a carpenter 11. a driver 12. an engineer 13. a mechanic 14. an interior decorator 15. a stylist 16. a sex therapist 17. a gynecologist/obstetrician 18. a psychologist 19. a psychiatrist 20. a therapist 21. a good father 22. a gentleman 23. well organized 24. tidy 25. very clean 26. athletic 27. affectionate 28. affable 29. attentive 30. ambitious 31. amenable 32. articulate 33. bold 34. brave 35. creative 36. courageous 37. complimentary 38. capable 39. decisive 40. intelligent 41. imaginative 42. interesting 43. prudent 44. patient 45. polite 46. passionate 47. respectful 48. sweet 49. strong 50. skillful 51. supportive 52. sympathetic 53. tolerant 54. understanding 55. someone who loves shopping 56. someone who doesn't make problems 57. someone who never looks at other women 58. very rich AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST PAY ATTENTION TO MAKE SURE YOU: 59. are neither jealous nor disinterested 60. get on well with her family, but don't spend more time with them than with her 61. give her space, but show interest and concern in where she goes ABOVE ALL IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO: 62. Not forget the dates of: * anniversaries (wedding, engagement, first date...) * graduation * birthday * menstruation NOW, HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY: 1. Let him play with your tits [/sIZE]
stillhere Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 The joke i had said: How to make a man happy: 1. Show up naked 2. Bring food
Double D Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Men mostly think about is sex and sports! Simple but true! As for women Have no idea!
Double D Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Oyster that is a classic! That is going to be spread all over London. TOO FUNNY! because TOO TRUE!
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