faithsway Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 About 3 months ago I broke off my engagement with the love of my life. It wasn't that I didn't love him, I just got really cold feet. Now I want him back. I have told him how i felt. He says that he still loves me and misses me but that he doesn't trust me to not do it again. I have explained my self to him and he says that he understands. We still talk, and hangout together in groups, and text through out the day. When it is just me and him he is very attentive, and acts normal. But when we are with are friends, he is kind of stand offish. He hasn't told me that it is completely over. He said that he is still trying to get over the miss trust and that he wants to be completely sure with himself that he wants to get back together. I am waiting patiently, but how much longer should I wait, and do you think it sounds hopeful. What should I be doing in the meantime, and how should I act around him.
BlueEyedSarah Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 It sounds like he is still very hurt of what you have done, he needs time to build up the trust in you again. He may act this way around other people you are with because maybe he may have told them and is worried they think any less of you possibly.
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