JLO2 Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 I am confussed, My boyfirend of eight months got a one night stand pregnant. This did happen before we got together... we hooked up in April and in May the young lady calls him and tell him that she was 1 month pregnant..... At 1st it did not bother me until three days ago when the baby was born...... I don't know what to think, do, or feel! During our eight month realationship things started to get a little shady. I live in FL and my BF lives in NC. Who knows what he can be doing while Im in FL and he's in NC I don't have no reason to believe that he is cheating.... When I go home to visit FL he makes plans and never go through with them, that really fustrate me, we dont see each other for about two-three weeks at any given time and sometimes a month...... So when I come home I expect to spend time with him and he don't realize that...... EXAMPLE... I went home to visit in July and August everytime I went home he made his little plans and broke them!! In between that he would come to FL to visit me and spend the weekend with me but I think that he does it to keep the peace or trying to "make UP" After so many broken promises I would tell him a peace of my mind and he would apologize and the next time I come home he would go through with his plan! Then it started back up again and then I told him a peace of my mind Thanksgiving when he mad a plan and broke it.......... But this argument was horrible I made him cry, sorry, plead, and I guess come to his senses. I was back in NC visting once again The first week in December he made his plan and went through!!!!! We had a little dis agreement the day before I left for FL and know he only calls me when he have to say something or need something... He dont call like he use to through out the day to say hello or to have small talk So NOW THE BABY IS HERE he has been at the hospital all day with the baby and his baby mother. He even cancelled some very important meetings to sit at the hospital with the baby and the young lady..... By him doing this I am already thinking he will not be able to juggle a Realtionship/GF, baby, baby mother, job, nothing. So I am feeling really sad and I dont know if I should end the realationship he went two days without calling me and if he do call he need me to do something!!!! When he decide to call he talk three mins...... and say I will call you back and never do???? So I dont want my BF to be around his baby mother the way he is because one thing could lead to another.. I dont know what to do PLEASE SUGGEST!!!
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