volleyballchick Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 my one true love broke up with me bout a week or two ago and is now datin this other girl...he told me today that he's in love with her!!!!my hearts feels like its been ripped out and smushed...what can i do to either get him back or move on???or what should i do in either case....
Guest Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 impossible - he is just trying to make u jealous - he wants u back he is using a lame way to do that tho lol
Lostandfound Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 It is largely down to the kind of realtionship you had, but the best advice anyone can give you in order to get back with them if that is what is best, is NC No Contact. Believe me, when a couple have had regular contact for some time, and then all of a sudden it stops, its confusing, and sets off intrigue. This person ended it with you for a reason, whether you know the reason or not is imaterial, all you have to do, is show that you are not phased by it, and continue. A realtionship has to have both parties to have the feelings, of course if the other person has none, then thiere is nothing you can do, but if they have you have to reignite the desire they have for you, NC is how to do it.l Dont show your needy, dont show your desperate, show them your a strong person, and show them why they fell for you in the first place. You can do it
jusified Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 ironic, my ex left me (she plays volleyball) cos she met some guy whom changed her feelings about me on a volleyball trip. Look, if they are in love with someone else or is not 100% in love with you and committed to you then you are better off without them. Its hard, I know!!! but have self confidence and try to move on. If its ment to be its ment to be. (some times you might stop contact and realise the relationship in a new light and feel differently about your former partner) I wish you the best of luck, because My situation is similar to yours (probably worse lol).
BlueEyedSarah Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 my one true love broke up with me bout a week or two ago and is now datin this other girl...he told me today that he's in love with her!!!!my hearts feels like its been ripped out and smushed...what can i do to either get him back or move on???or what should i do in either case.... You can't choose who you fall in love with. You can not get someone back or to make someone love you. Move on.
Author volleyballchick Posted December 20, 2006 Author Posted December 20, 2006 well thanx for all the advice...i have recently found out from a friend that the only reason he is saying hes in love with her is to make me jealous...but when my ex told me he was in love i said i was happy for him...was that right to do???i didnt want to let him know that i was jealous of her and him...but i know ill have him back soon, if not i guess ill try and move on
jusified Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 move on dude, or at least take a break for a while to evaluate on what you want
Author volleyballchick Posted April 4, 2007 Author Posted April 4, 2007 well thanx for everything...i am currently dating a terrific guy and i am very happy...thank you all for helping me move on...if any of you have myspace you can add me....http://www.myspace.com/schridette
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