plonky_donky Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 My ex broke up with me b4 i went to uni a few months back which left me devastated (we had been together for 2 years). Well i found this new girl friend at uni who i like alot but i still love my ex. I recently met my ex and she says she wants me back. Should i go back to my ex whom i love very much or stick it out with the new girl rather than moving backwards? My head says i should keep moving forward and that is with my new girl, but my heart longs for my ex. Any advice apreciated.
jusified Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 Depends on how well yur ex treated you, try and have an objecive view about it. I would say go wit the new girl if she really likes you and maybe even love. because getting back with the ex might be good for a while but you ar still young she might change again and you will get hurt
stillafool Posted December 20, 2006 Posted December 20, 2006 Well it depends on why your ex broke up with you. Was it your fault or hers? I need more info.
Author plonky_donky Posted December 21, 2006 Author Posted December 21, 2006 She broke up with me cos she didnt want to be in a long term relationship and wanted some "fun time" at uni.
stillafool Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 Well since she broke up with you to have fun by herself, I wouldn't rush back to her. It seems she got to the University and found out there's no one better than you afterall. How do you feel about the new girl? Are or were you falling in love with her before your ex called? If the new girl is a casual relationship and you don't feel love for her then maybe you should give your girlfriend a second chance. If you are falling in love with the new girl and you can see yourself in a long relationship with her, don't go back to your old girlfriend, because she may hurt you the way you are going to hurt this new girl and it will come back on you.
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