spring123 Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Hey all, Need some advice here. I think I finally am over the most difficult time post break-up, and that on-and-off period. Yes he broke up with me, then we got back together, then he did that again, and again. I know he liked me deeply, we had a deep bond back then, and felt very special about each other. But he's not ready for relationship - he's 24. I'm a beautiful, confident and successful woman who has achieved a lot in my life. I was very good to him and was a great girlfriend. I also put my ego aside and was very patient and understanding of him after he broke up with me and trying to figure things out, and we eventually got back together before he broke up again. Yes I swallowed my pride as I thought if you truly like someone you can put that aside. He was a very very special someone to me, so was I to him. He doesn't want a relationship, but kept calling me and couldn't call it quit on me. Last time I saw him, he agreed not to call me anymore. So this is helping me to move on. Problem is, looking back, I was so nice, so putting myself behind, trying to be underestanding, not to give him any pressure (he's younger than me and I know how it is). But I'm also a beautiful person outside and inside and I should not have been treated that way. Last time he said horrible things to me and kicked me out of his apt - he can be very cruel at timesand I acted weak as I left crying. How silly was I! I should have walked away from him with dignity and pride. But what happened happened. I loved, no regret. Question is, I'm thinking I should let him know that I'm OK we'll go different ways, but the way he handled it was not right. That he insulted me, he did not respect me. I was so stupid that previously I told him I was not mad and I understood he's not ready! Should I sent an email with this message to him, or not? Is it better just to not to speak with him again?
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