EllieBear Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 My best friend just got a boyfriend about 4-5 months ago...and now I NEVER see her! She is always doing something with him on the weekends and we never got out and have fun like we used too and it sucks! I call her and try to hang out but she's always like "i'm not sure what i'm doing" or "Ya I will let you know" and never does! It's making me mad because she bitched me out when I had a boyfriend and she thought I never wanted to hang out with her. And I was spending to much time with him. But now she is toally doing what she bitched me out for! It's just not me my other 2 friends who are friends with her feel the same...I don't know if I should talk to her about it, or just ignore it b/c I guess It's suppose to happen when someone gets a boyfriend or girlfriend. Like she hangs out with him and his friends but very rarely does she do something with us and brings her bf. I'm just mad bc I feel like i'm losing my friend...She just hangs with me when he is busy or isn't around...What should I do? I don't want to cause a fight but it's starting to get to the point that I'm done calling her bc she never picks up or never wants to hang out!
blind_otter Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 I would talk about it with her and bring up her soreness over your past relationship. Make sure not to attack and be as calm and rational as possible. You don't want her to go in defense mode because that will negate any attempt to have a rational conversation. Also, this phenomena is very common. It will probably normalize as her relationship progresses because we can't spend all our time with our BFs, and she was still in the honeymoon period. I'm just saying.
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