is she playing me?? wat do i do?

[lakers_4_life]

hi...ok theres this girl at work who juss started a couple weeks ago. she is a really hot girl. everyone at work thinks shes the type thats golddigging and will play you. anyway, wen she started work she told everyone there that she thought i was cute. after a week or so i ask her out to lunch and we got to know each other better. from there on we started to flirt at work and stuff. one day wen we were talking she says that shes looking for a real relationship this time. and she is waiting for the right time and the right guy. but after we went to lunch i asked her to go out another time but she had plans so i asked her to go friday and she said we should go saturday. and when saturday came around she said her uncle asked her to go shopping with him for christmas so she couldnt go. now im really confused, she says shes going to lunch with some guy wen i asked her wat she was doing monday. and wen i asked her wat day she was free next week she says she really doesnt know. now, this mite sound like shes trying to avoid me, and i really dont got a problem with that. but if she really wasnt interested in me she wouldnt be flirting with me, she wouldnt put her arms around me or share her drinks with me. i asked her if we had a chance and she sed of course u have a chance, but she doesnt want a boyfriend right now and she sed that i should juss get to know her first. shes seeing other ppl i gusse so i dont know wat to do. should i juss play it cool and wait till she ask me to go out or should i ask her. thank you

[usman]

In my thoughts after reading all i conclude that she is just playing with you .

[rina_r]

wen i asked her wat day she was free next week she sed

 

For starters, you need to learn to communicate in proper English.

[stillafool]

Yes she is definitely playing around with you. Don't ask her out again because she is making it clear she's not interested. She doesn't want to come straight out and hurt your feelings. She probably does think you are cute but it sounds like after you guys went to lunch she was no longer interested. If she wanted something with you she wouldn't say she doesn't want a boyfriend. Also if she's that "hot" she probably has lots of suitors.

 

Also it wouldn't hurt to brush up on your spelling.

[Guest]

she is not into you. she likes you as a friend . that's it. not more than that.

so move on.