kellyp1 Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Have others found that NC makes the feelings grow even more? That is kind of where he and I are. We see each other 4-5 days a week due to work but are both saying how much we miss being with each other, talking and spending time together. The feelings to be together feel even stronger than they were before for me and I think the same for him. We are both attempting to throw ourselves into the holidays to forget the distance. Maybe this is because we never consummated our relationship so we will always have that feeling of unfulfilled desires. Just wanted to see if others felt the same way?
GreenEyedLady Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Hi Kelly! It must be really hard for you to have to see him so much...I really feel for you...I've never done NC, so I can't really help you there...If you guys are talking at all, though, I'd have to say that that really isn't NC...And that having him around all the time is going to make NC really hard to pull off...
scaredinlove Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Have others found that NC makes the feelings grow even more? That is kind of where he and I are. We see each other 4-5 days a week due to work but are both saying how much we miss being with each other, talking and spending time together. The feelings to be together feel even stronger than they were before for me and I think the same for him. We are both attempting to throw ourselves into the holidays to forget the distance. Maybe this is because we never consummated our relationship so we will always have that feeling of unfulfilled desires. Just wanted to see if others felt the same way? Yeah it feels stronger when yyou talk to that special person. After it is consumeted too.
Author kellyp1 Posted December 18, 2006 Author Posted December 18, 2006 It is more like Almost No Contact. When we see each other at work or if he calls, the conversations have been limited to 5 minutes. He called today just to tell me hi since our 2 days of not seeing each other are Sunday and Monday. It was very "hey, what's up. just wanted to see how you were doing." The closeness is gone although we did both admit that we really miss each other. I don't know, I am supposed to go on a date this week with a friend's brother. Maybe that will help me start to forget... I somehow don't think so.
GreenEyedLady Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 I am supposed to go on a date this week with a friend's brother. Maybe that will help me start to forget... I somehow don't think so. Good luck! Is he hot?
ratingsguy Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Is he hot? Typical woman! I only get to see my MW about once every 2 weeks or so. So while it's not a NC situation, at times it feels like one. But to answer your original question, the time spent apart does indeed make the heart grow fonder. I've even told her that.
Author kellyp1 Posted December 19, 2006 Author Posted December 19, 2006 LOL - the new guy is pretty good looking and a fireman but I am more worried about really being able to put any of my heart into it. I guess in the beginning that is ok anyway. My love of my MM has been growing as we spend less time together and I have noticed the same with him. He leaves the small office we all work out of now when it is just he and I and when I asked why he said the feelings are stronger than ever and he feels it is more than he can handle somedays. It sucks but we are trying to work through this. I feed off of all of your guys stories though to get me through this.
Guest Posted December 19, 2006 Posted December 19, 2006 gawd if my ex gf broke nc without talking on the phone or text before meeting it would be crazy passion that would make us both cry fantasy again - lol speaking of fantasies - does anyone ever dream about making love with an ex again? duh
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