silveris250 Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Okay, heres my story. I've been in a relationship for 8 months now. I'm a 24 yr male and shes 21. We met at work over the summer and started to talk. In the past I dated a girl for about 3 yrs and it was pretty rocky.."she cheated on me", so my trust for girls were really shot. I stopped dating for two years until i met this one. She's also was dating someone else not to long ago until she dated me which was 8months *Said it was a rebound because shes dated someone else before that for 4 years and he treated her like s**T. Our work relationship is perfect (very professional) we do enjoy eachothers couple in and out of work. We do everything together and she's the greatest thing that came into my life. Now the thing is..I know shes young..and we've talked about being together for a long time. Now for me, I want to date a girl that i know is going to be a "potential wife". We've talked about marriage jokingly and she asked if i'd marry her someday which I definelty would for sure! But my insecurities are getting in the way. I'm scared that she might just leave me like the last one would. The other day I discussed that I had a problems with the word "trust". I know that I DO trust her..it just i have these thoughts that would start flowing in my head..And yea, she did get very upset that. She said that she opened up to me in these last 8 months ..and now that I had a conversation about trust shes has put her "WALL UP" because she has said that It sounded like I wanted to break up with her..so i can do it anytime, so thats why. But I do love this girl..i've said it many times to her..but she hasn't the "word" to me..is that ok?..so can any of you guys analyze this for me, and help me out? thanks!
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