Jubilee Kate Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Hopefully the one you had a huge crush on.Gosh, I hope not - he always smelled like bread. I think he may have actually been made of yeast. I was always hungry when I left that class.
pricillia Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 and yes I have a brain and yes I use it all, but you know it is the heart that often takes over...
amaysngrace Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Yes everyone is entitled to thier own opinion... as everyone has demons and no one is perfect. The funny thing is I think the way that you do on this subject so I would hope that the comment was not a shot at me. and by me replying to the post I was being silly so if you have something to say about what I have done let's keep it out of this post. Actually I just went to your threads since mine are of such an interest to you and I went with the first thing I found. Sorry if you took it the wrong way, I was just playing fair. One may argue that from your life situation you have no right chiming in here either, you know? Doesn't mean they need to challenge your position though. That would just be silly.
pricillia Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Actually I just went to your threads since mine are of such an interest to you and I went with the first thing I found. Sorry if you took it the wrong way, I was just playing fair. One may argue that from your life situation you have no right chiming in here either, you know? Doesn't mean they need to challenge your position though. That would just be silly. Playing fair... I was talking about rooster darr and him joking around about what you said about finding a woman that is easy on him and his reply was I will go find a easy woman... spinning it around to be um funny Chiming in... oh sorry for joking around that is right someone who falls in love with the wrong person has no right at all to have any fun... Let's just get one thing clear that I was not challenging you or your post... give me a break!
Jubilee Kate Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Soooooo....how bout that overpopulation problem? Whoooo! Bringing it back to where this all started.... I think relationships, despite the potential for gutwrenching heartbreak, are worth it. Happiness trumps being bitter, grey, and owning 100 cats anyday. When they are good, they are good.
Trialbyfire Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Since it's brought back to the original point, no, relationships are not worth the hassle. Better to find someone or many someones to meet your physical needs and then have friends to meet your emotional needs.
Jubilee Kate Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Since it's brought back to the original point, no, relationships are not worth the hassle. Better to find someone or many someones to meet your physical needs and then have friends to meet your emotional needs.Apparently I need better friends.
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 Since it's brought back to the original point, no, relationships are not worth the hassle. Better to find someone or many someones to meet your physical needs and then have friends to meet your emotional needs. Good to see there is someone else that is thinking along these lines instead of just me. I don't know, I might change my mind in a few years, but right now I'm thinking this way too.
magichands Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Since it's brought back to the original point, no, relationships are not worth the hassle. Better to find someone or many someones to meet your physical needs I agree. Just not all at once, please. and then have friends to meet your emotional needs. I agree, again. But don't you just want to kiss them sometimes!? Definitely no tongue, though.
amaysngrace Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 give me a break! I'm so sorry. I totally misunderstood you.
Jubilee Kate Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Good to see there is someone else that is thinking along these lines instead of just me. I don't know, I might change my mind in a few years, but right now I'm thinking this way too.Believe me, I've oft wished I could think along these lines. That I could be in a purely physical situation with someone and not become emotionally attached. It never works becaue I always wind up staying just a day longer than I should have. Just one friggin day! And poof. I'm like a giant ball of estrogen fueled... OOOH!!!! That should be on the list of 101 ways to kill a date!!!
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 Believe me, I've oft wished I could think along these lines. That I could be in a purely physical situation with someone and not become emotionally attached. It never works becaue I always wind up staying just a day longer than I should have. Just one friggin day! And poof. I'm like a giant ball of estrogen fueled... OOOH!!!! That should be on the list of 101 ways to kill a date!!! :confused: I'm telling ya, that list needs to be created. D'oh!
magda Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Haven't read the thread, just answering the original question.. I do not think relationships are worth any large amount of trouble. Just wait it out - if you find one that doesn't feel like trouble, go for it. I don't see the point in suffering for "love".
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 Haven't read the thread, just answering the original question.. I do not think relationships are worth any large amount of trouble. Just wait it out - if you find one that doesn't feel like trouble, go for it. I don't see the point in suffering for "love". That makes three of us so far....keep em coming.
Trialbyfire Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Apparently I need better friends. Apparently we both do considering my exes interpretation of friends. Good to see there is someone else that is thinking along these lines instead of just me. I don't know, I might change my mind in a few years, but right now I'm thinking this way too. I think you and I have both been through something similar recently, thus we're both a little tired of the b/s that goes on in a "committed" relationship, where commitment appears to only be on our sides. I agree. Just not all at once, please. Oh I dunno. Isn't variety the spice of life? I can keep up. I agree, again. But don't you just want to kiss them sometimes!? Definitely no tongue, though. Hmmm....I love kissing, so kissing with or without tongue is permitted too. Dancing is not permitted. According to certain groups, it leads to things like...hugging...
dgiirl Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Good to see there is someone else that is thinking along these lines instead of just me. I don't know, I might change my mind in a few years, but right now I'm thinking this way too. I've given up on dating. Fsck that. I'd rather just hang out with my friends and then come home to bob.
magichands Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 There's only room for one cynic in this village. Begone, you pretenders.
Porn_Guy Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 This is a question I often ask myself. Would it now just be much easier being comfortable with yourself and not even entering a partnership at all, it's just too much **cking hassle and it sucks when it's over. "Relationships" exist mainly cause most women won't have sex outside of them....once again the females are in control.
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 18, 2006 Author Posted December 18, 2006 "Relationships" exist mainly cause most women won't have sex outside of them....once again the females are in control. Okay, I know this is AL** speaking, dude I know you too well. Your answers are way too obvious.
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 18, 2006 Author Posted December 18, 2006 I'd rather just hang out with my friends and then come home to bob. Maybe your just not coming home to the right person to bob on. LOL
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 18, 2006 Author Posted December 18, 2006 Hmmm....I love kissing, so kissing with or without tongue is permitted too. Dancing is not permitted. According to certain groups, it leads to things like...hugging.. Same thing here, kissing is at the top of my list of the best things in life. D'oh! I think the original posts was referring to family members though.
IpAncA Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Are relationships worth the trouble? Depends. On a good day they are and on a bad day they are not.
Porn_Guy Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Are relationships worth the trouble? Depends. On a good day they are and on a bad day they are not. Also depends on gender: for a man on a good day they aren't worth it and on a bad day they aren't worth it either...
IpAncA Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Also depends on gender: for a man on a good day they aren't worth it and on a bad day they aren't worth it either... Yeah you can still have a good day and not think women are worth it. Same with women too. Would also have to depend on the type of relationship their in and what is going on to make him think like that too.
Guest Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 relationships are not trouble - they are rewards and should be cherished and things that require work - not like a job, but like a garden.
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