confusedandempty Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Hello everyone - There are 8 weeks since I broke up with my ex, but I've been thinking a lot about her lately. However, I wasn't really all that happy in our relationship and I guess that deep inside I don't want to go back there unless something changes. I'm having my exams at the Uni now, so I have a lot of time to let my mind wander about her ... and the results are that some of the feelings for her are coming back since I've had so much time thinking about her. That's why it's kind of frustrating to sit around and thinking of how you care for someone. Usually when these thoughts popped up in my mind, I just went to the gym and got my head straight, but I don't have time for that right now. I guess that even though my heart says that I should get in contact with my ex, my brain says that I should let her go. And that's what I'm gonna do. I believe I'm setting myself up for more disappointment in the future and I don't neccessarely need that. Well, I'm not here to talk about my ex. I'm trying to get over her and I need to see other people in order to let that happen. What I need advice on this old flame of mine. The flame was definetly on my side, but I didn't know if she had any feelings for me. I liked her from the minute I saw her, but I guess that I was too afraid to approach. However I recall that she called me few times while we were friends at my old school. Just curiosly checking if I was going to the school dance later that evening. That was when I was about 20 and she was 18. Now I'm 23 and yeah...she's 21 . Do you have any advices for me how I should approach this girl now, when I haven't spoken to her at all since mid summer. And that was just friendly chit chat. She's on my MSN and MySpace, but I haven't spoken to her in a while and I would really like to reconnect. What is the best method for me? Any advices?
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