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My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 2 years, and we love each other very much. But now, both of us feel different; we feel like we are drifting apart. Neither one of us wants to break up -- we want to try to work it out. But where do we start? What is there for us to do about this situation? He says that he doesnt want to lose me; and I definately dont want to lose him. Things arent exciting anymore, and we both work and go to school, so we dont spend as much time together as we used to. Neither one of us can take time off work either. How can we solve this problem? We want to be happy again. :(

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thankyou

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it's a good sign that you both don't want to lose each other. maybe try setting one night a week to do something for just the two of you. it doesn't necessarily have to be going out. make dinner for him. rent a movie and stay in. ask him what he wants that would excite him about you and tell him what would excite you about him.

 

try to remember what excited you both in the first place. sometimes just a night at home with just the two of you with no interruptions is a great thing. sounds like you guys are pretty busy. try to connect for a bit each day. even if it's a text message or email. just knowing that you are thinking about each other may help. just a few ideas. hope it helps.

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