Confused5433 Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 I would like to get an idea of what makes a women irresistable in your eyes. Not just someone you want to take home for the night, but a women that makes you feel alive again and in love. Please include everything...the good qualities and the turn off.s My Top 10 list for the guys, in no specific order: 1. Confidence: this is the sexiest qualities in any guy, no matter if your not attractive, believe me you will become very attractive in any women eyes with this attitude. 2. Positive attitude: If he can face up to any problems with strength and dignity then anything is possible with him in my eyes. 3. Romantic: I need to know and feel he needs me, (not someone clingy) but someone that truly makes me feel loved. From sweet compliments, to a kiss in the forehead, to finding the right song to give me. Affectionate: this goes hand in hand with romance, not just sex, but all the other physical touches. 4. Intelligence: It's another sexy quality, specially if he uses it to have creative dates, someone that can hold great conversations, that is intrigued at life and makes you want to know more. Someone that can read me and knows how to get to me. This one is very important because it will dominate your other behaviors. 5. Good Values: Someone that has morals and respect for women. Someone that will break up with his gf before he dares to go after another. Someone that will go the length not to hurt the people around him with lies and cheats even if he changes his mind. That's life, but do the right thing. 6. Faith in God: No matter what religion or spiritual belief, when one has found a connection with something greater it gives him a better purpose and perspective in life. 7. Passion: This goes for everything in life, but particularly for his career and his loved ones. Someone with passion is someone that finds happiness with what is in front of him and irradiates that wonderful energy that makes us fall for the guy. 8. Sense of Humor: You have to be able to laugh at problems and at each other. This diminished tension and only creates harmony in any relationship. 9. Physical Attraction: there has to be something you fancy, in my case the dark eyes and hair, the captivating smile, and he has to be taller than me... 10. Family Values: I come from a really close family, and if this person might be the ONEe, then he def. needs to value family and children, and def. form a connection with my family... Turn Offs 1. Insecurity: If you still can't believe in yourself, how are we suppose to believe in you. This doesn't mean you can't be insecure, but if you're constantly doubting yourself girls will flock away...guaranteed. So get up, love who you are and go for the girl....you know you can, just do it. 2. No Manners: A guy that curses, or talks about dirty stuff in front of your friends, or is vulgar is a HUGE red flag. No one wants to bring a guy like that home or close to your friends, even if you are attracted to him. A guy like that is just for fun....maybe. 3. Arrogant/Self-Absorbed: It's good to be confident, but not cocky. Guys like this are very attractive at first, but since they're so concerned with themselves they will end up with themselves. So don't expect a long term if you're always talking about "me,me,me,me" 4. Liars/Cheaters: You think you can play games and get away with it, well you can't. Once this happens you have destroyed everything about your relationships and will never get it back. So think 50 times before doing this with someone you love, even if it's just to relieve stress or for fun. 5. Needy/Clingy Guys: This one is scary. If they worry about every decision you make, and how it will affect them and how much you need to accomodate your life for him...then Run GIRLS. Word of Advice: do the opposite, don't cling to the girl, give her space, let her breathe, challenge her to believe that even though you need her in your life and love her, you will be fine and move on without her, even if it kills you inside. This makes women feel that you are strong and sensitive at the same time...beautiful connection. 6. Lack of Interests: If you haven't found what drives you in life and where you want to go, more than likely you will have little to share with the girl. This ends up in a boring relationship that drives girls away. 7. The Critic: If you constantly make observations about this, and that, placing the napkin a certain way, or talking to someone like this, and that...OMG, let the girl be free, please. No one wants to feel criticized, there are other methods to have someone change their ways, but only if they want to. So let people be who they are, you meet them that way, so why are trying to change them. 8. Lack of Social Skills: When girls introduce you to your friends or family, smile, say something smart, mesh well with people important to her. Don't just ignore them and expect them to always come to you. This makes anyone feel uncomfortable, specially your gf. If this is not your personality, and you're shy, it's ok, but at least be in a good mood and make an attempt to be interested in people in her circle. 9. The Looker: A guy that is constantly looking at girls everywhere is def. a turn off. I can look with you and comment about the girls, we can joke and you can look here and there...but all the time...come on, this is disturbing, and makes girls just want to dump you. Really....It's like watching a big baby hungry for milk...or worse no respect for the gf whatsoever. 10. Immaturity: This one creates a huge conflict in the relationship. A man that can't be a man and face up to his mistakes like a man, be humble and just deal with situations with his head instead of his pride, will always win over any girl and even teach her a lesson if she is being immature. Ok..Guys, Now you're turn.....
rina_r Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 6. Faith in God: No matter what religion or spiritual belief, when one has found a connection with something greater it gives him a better purpose and perspective in life. [/b] Oh, no, when will you, people, learn to remember that there is atheism and agnosticism and stop put this religious crap everywhere???
Author Confused5433 Posted December 16, 2006 Author Posted December 16, 2006 My brother went from an atheist/scientific mentality to believing in the power of the mind, to believing in God. He has seen and read it all, but he found a clear understanding of life in his journey. That's why I mentioned "ANY SPIRITUAL BELIEF", the point is to to find some connection. Im talking from a very personal way, some people might not care at all if someone is an atheist, they might have everything else, find each other and be happy and that's perfectly ok. In my case, I would prefer someone that is spiritual and shares my beliefs....that's all Rina. No reason to get upset here, we all respect each one's opinion...besides, what did you think about the rest?
Porn_Guy Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 what website did you cut & paste this from? also WTF is deal with turn on #6, faith in God. Thats rediculous!
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