heartbroken1234 Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 Ok, see my ex and I have been broke up for 7 months... In those 7 months, we have yet to go more than a week w/ out talking, I'd always try but she'd always call me crying. This whole time though, she's had a boyfriend who she claims to love, they got together 2 weeks after we broke up, kind of why she dumped me I think... not positive... Anyways... about month 6 I started talking to some other girl and some stuff happened, my ex found out. She obviously calls me crying, makes me meet her, etc. Nothing is settled and we fight for about a week, just her crying me endless amounts and texting me, etc. Just acting so hurt that I'd sleep w/ someone else, yet she'd been sleeping with and still is her boyfriend. I reassure my ex that I love her and if she'd want to be back together we could... she just insists on how complicated it is and that she's so confused and lost. Well... we keep talking more and more, then that leads to hanging out. Then that leads to just laying together, which leads to more. Then she started driving to my house to visit, but we'd have to sneak around because she has a boyfriend. He lives 3 hours away, but my ex lives w/ her brother on campus. So when we'd hang out, she'd drive to my place about 15 minutes away. OR.. get this.... I'd climb in through her window at like 1am for a couple straight evenings. Obviously stuff happened gradually... We kissed, then a few more nights led to more, then we end up having sex. She was very weird acting afterwards like she felt bad, considering she just cheated on her dude. Then, a few more nights, it happens again, she doesn't feel bad, joking around, etc. Then 2 days ago happens. She calls me bawling her eyes out... asking me to meet her at the park. I get there and she's already crying like crazy. I'm asking what's wrong and all she says is that her boyfriend is going to be home. Obviously meaning that we couldn't continue to hang out because he's home for break and if she doesn't break up with him we obviously can't talk anymore. Well... she procedes to keep crying, but then just grabs me and we start kissing and she tells me how she loves me and always will. This came as a huge shock for me. The next day comes and she calls me crying again, saying how she didn't dump him, he kissed her and they slept in same bed, but no sex..(which i hardly believe)... ANyways, she continues to text and call me throughout the day when he's not around. I'm trying to be there for her and support her since I'm thinking she's going to dump him. Then the evening comes around. I try calling her, she doesn't answer.... I get pissed, call back again, and again... She finally answers and goes nuts... "why are you calling, what are you calling for, how many times do i tell you to leave me alone". I threaten her ( i know very immature) that if she hangs up I will tell everyone that she cheated on him and tell her brother immediately on instant messenger. She eventually hangs up and I tell her brother. All hell breaks lose, with him wondering what to believe. (by the way, her brother's best friend is her current boyfriend)... Anyways, he gives me attitude and says he'll believe her over me anyday. Tells me I'm crazy, psycho, take medication, etc. Just being a prick. Anyways, she calls me and ask's what did I ever do to her, why am I ruining her. etc. Now it's today... she text me really early this morning, just saying crap to me about how she is in shock of me, to quit making things up (takes two to have sex mind you, haha...), etc. Just being very dismissive, won't say anything, keeps hanging up on me, but calls back... Also mentions how I should just go hook up with that girl I was seeing since i loved her so much... (don't love her, just bad mistake, mistake which made the ex come crying back to me). And I'm just so so lost. I don't see how anyone could treat me like this or what her motive or mission is. Why did she not just break up with her dude and be w/ me? Will she end up staying in this distance relationship with him? Will her having cheated and trying to lie about it bring them closer? WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?!?!?!?
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