CheeseMonkey Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 So there is this girl I am in love with. I met her in an extracurricular activity we had and we were in it together for about half a year. We got to work alot together and I asked her out and she said yes So we went to a party we were both invited to, my parents took us and hers took us home. Things went really well and I asked her if she wanted to be my gf at this party. She said yes and made me the happiest person in the world I asked her if she wanted to do something with me a couple days later, and we did. Her parents agreed to this as well. And I discovered that I really cared about her that day and things were great in school for a couple days..... So I get a call from her a couple days later and she says that she can't date me bc her parents said so. She said that she can't date until she's 16 and I was crushed....I thought all along it was okay with them. You can't say she can't date someone and let her go places with a guy...and then take it all away! You just can't do that and its not fair! She's not lying about this bc I trust her and I know that she wouldn't lie to me and she would tell me if she hated me. I know, she is on the younger side, but she isn't really that young at all. We've been friends and I'm giving her space (it's all we can be right now) for about 2 months and I still have the same feelings for her and I think she does for me. I'm going to talk to her soon and ask her if she wants to be more than friends again, and if she does, she needs to talk to her parents about how she feels and how I feel. She is very loyal to them and I think she's just a little scared to talk to them. Her parents know I'm a nice person, I've showed that to them after we had to break up. Any advice?
amaysngrace Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 I would tell her that you like her enough to wait for her. Let her know there is no one you'd rather be with, and if you can't have her as a girlfriend now you will wait until you can. That you are okay with just being friends because you like her that much. It will mean a lot to her to hear those words from you.
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