sapphire0903 Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 I am back again posting because I am not sure what I should do. This guy and I have been talking and seeing one another since the end of October. In the beginning we talked every day, for the past two weeks now it has slacked off to every other day now it has been since Tuesday (today is Friday) since I talked to him. No arguments or disagreements. He did tell me Tuesday that he has quite a busy schedule through Christmas, but even so, his schedule had been very busy prior to this, and he made time to call me. So again......I feel like he is losing interest, ............should I tell him this? Should I call him? I don't want to continue to try to talk / see this person if he really is not all that interested anymore. You know pester him. Thanks all!
KolzarAAV Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 I've got a friend who used the same excuses to get rid of a girl, but don't get too pessimistic, call him.
Mythical Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 I agree, try not to worry about it. Just be honest and ask him about it. It's not fair to you to be left lingering without answers. Call him!
DanielMadr Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 I am back again posting because I am not sure what I should do. This guy and I have been talking and seeing one another since the end of October. In the beginning we talked every day, for the past two weeks now it has slacked off to every other day now it has been since Tuesday (today is Friday) since I talked to him. No arguments or disagreements. He did tell me Tuesday that he has quite a busy schedule through Christmas, but even so, his schedule had been very busy prior to this, and he made time to call me. So again......I feel like he is losing interest, ............should I tell him this? Should I call him? I don't want to continue to try to talk / see this person if he really is not all that interested anymore. You know pester him. Thanks all! Take initiative. He is probably busy even more....everyone is these days. Or he is thinking the same about your interest. If man does all the pursuing all the time he eventually thinks 'She probably doesnt like me so much and Im behaving like leech' then becomes confused, frustrated, angry and backs off, b/c its turn off.
Guest Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 gawd, i just chased my ex gf for 3 months and never heard anything - now i find out she got married while we were apart. whoa! not sure what happened there - must have been love at first sight.
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