upsetman12 Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 it started when i was taking a class with a longtime friend. we've been close friends for about 5 years and she had a boyfriend at the time that she has been with for 4 years.her boyfriend and i were friends as well since we played basketball together. she and her boyfriend made a mutual break up since he is leaving town to go to college. i wasnt planning on making anything happen with her since i know she will be confused and come on the rebound.well we end up hooking up and becoming real close. i tell her i wanna be exclusive and she says she still have feelings for her ex and she needs time to think still. after time she starts a new job and then starts blowing me off. so i start getting upset and confront her about this and then she ends saying she just wants to be friends again. now my heart is broken from it because i poured my heart out to her. i knew something like this would happen but i figured she would come to my side and forget about her ex. so now were friends but i dont want that at all, how do i deal with it or how can i get her to change her mind. also were gonna have a class together next semester.
Guest Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Hi, you knew she had a boyfriend and you still went there. How would you feel if a friend of yours did the same to you? Also how do you know that she wont repeat this pattern if she was to start dating you - or do you think that you are special and so it wont happen? If the other guy does not know what has been going on she is very good at covering her tracks (lying). Can you really trust someone like this? Sorry to be harsh but you should leave them alone and find your own girl there are loads of them out there!
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