Author Meaplus3 Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 I tried, but the tool girl poster keeps distracting me. Bonehead, Are you referring to my new avatar? I figured it was time to ditch the hairy chested guy( like MM) with the phone in his hand for a new av! I'm liking my new av! AP:D
bonehead Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Bonehead, Are you referring to my new avatar? I figured it was time to ditch the hairy chested guy( like MM) with the phone in his hand for a new av! I'm liking my new av! AP:D Actually I hadnt noticed. I dont look at them very often.
Author Meaplus3 Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 Actually I hadnt noticed. I dont look at them very often. Ok bonehead, I will accept that! Just teasing ya! AP
bonehead Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Men, they have a one-track mind... Two track mind
GreenEyedLady Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Two track mind What's the other-track?
bonehead Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 What's the other-track? Read my post in We Seem To Be Alone Now from earlier today. Number 8
GreenEyedLady Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Hungry and horny...yep I guess those are the two tracks...
Author Meaplus3 Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 Two track mind Two Track? Intresting! Is that anw av your sporting?
RecordProducer Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Hey Bonehead, I hope you don't think I am a male basher! There are plenty of great guys out there. The one I made a huge mistake of getting involved with just happend to be this way! APWhat about your husband? You talk about men as if he doesn't exist in your life. I am not saying you should talk as if he does exist, just noting that you left him out of the picture. If you fell for another guy in your heart then you don't love your husband. If you love him then you shouldn't have these emotions for this man. But I think you do have feelings for your fantasy man and you are far away from your husband. If I were you, I would concentrate on your marriage and fixing problems with your husband. If that's your goal, we might help you in achieving the emotional re-connection. You might want to start another thread for that topic. I myself have plenty of advice and tips that proved to work.
bonehead Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Two Track? Intresting! Is that anw av your sporting? Thats the picture of the tattoo my kids got me for christmas last year was based on. Mine has flames off the axe heads
Author Meaplus3 Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 What about your husband? You talk about men as if he doesn't exist in your life. I am not saying you should talk as if he does exist, just noting that you left him out of the picture. If you fell for another guy in your heart then you don't love your husband. If you love him then you shouldn't have these emotions for this man. But I think you do have feelings for your fantasy man and you are far away from your husband. If I were you, I would concentrate on your marriage and fixing problems with your husband. If that's your goal, we might help you in achieving the emotional re-connection. You might want to start another thread for that topic. I myself have plenty of advice and tips that proved to work. Hi, I appreciate your advice very much. Yes ofcourse I have many feeling's for my fantasy man and may love him. This "A" has taken a toll on me and my H. I am not sure what I want right now. You say that if I let this man in my heart that I love him? Well, answer me this? MM tell's me he loves his wife. Well, then after 18 months's of and EA, where I know I am in this man's heart, how could he truely love her? Why is it ok for the man here to have an EA but oh he loves his wife, don't ya think he might not love her as much as he say's or even truely at all ? After all it takes two to tango and he told me many time's that he enjoyed our emotional closeness.Trying to figure so much out. AP
Author Meaplus3 Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 Thats the picture of the tattoo my kids got me for christmas last year was based on. Mine has flames off the axe heads Very Neat!
RecordProducer Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Hi, I appreciate your advice very much. Yes ofcourse I have many feeling's for my fantasy man and may love him. This "A" has taken a toll on me and my H. I am not sure what I want right now. You say that if I let this man in my heart that I love him? Well, answer me this? MM tell's me he loves his wife. Well, then after 18 months's of and EA, where I know I am in this man's heart, how could he truely love her? Why is it ok for the man here to have an EA but oh he loves his wife, don't ya think he might not love her as much as he say's or even truely at all ? After all it takes two to tango and he told me many time's that he enjoyed our emotional closeness.Trying to figure so much out. API am saying that if you let the other man enter your heart, you don't truly love your husband. At least not right now after the EA. I don't know why you're concentrating on the neighbor instead on yourself and your life. Who cares how guilty he is and how much he loves his wife? Can't you see that you're posing these questions because you care about him? Well you have to find a way to get him out of your system. His presence is poisonous for you. He ditched you and chose his wife. That episode of your life is over. I understand it's hard for you to accept it, but you have to. Somebody didn't take you as seriously as you him. C'est la vie. Right now all you want to do is prove that he did have feelings for you and he doesn't truly love his wife. And? What are you going to achieve with that? In an ideal world, he would leave his wife and ask you to leave your husband. But he doesn't want that. So what else can you do? Any steps you might take wil turn against you and bite you. He wanted to keep things the way they were, but you wanted more. You wanted to tell his wife, to reveal your affair and the ultimate purpose of that was to be with him. But he doesn't want to be with you. So get over him.
Author Meaplus3 Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 I am saying that if you let the other man enter your heart, you don't truly love your husband. At least not right now after the EA. I don't know why you're concentrating on the neighbor instead on yourself and your life. Who cares how guilty he is and how much he loves his wife? Can't you see that you're posing these questions because you care about him? Well you have to find a way to get him out of your system. His presence is poisonous for you. He ditched you and chose his wife. That episode of your life is over. I understand it's hard for you to accept it, but you have to. Somebody didn't take you as seriously as you him. C'est la vie. Right now all you want to do is prove that he did have feelings for you and he doesn't truly love his wife. And? What are you going to achieve with that? In an ideal world, he would leave his wife and ask you to leave your husband. But he doesn't want that. So what else can you do? Any steps you might take wil turn against you and bite you. He wanted to keep things the way they were, but you wanted more. You wanted to tell his wife, to reveal your affair and the ultimate purpose of that was to be with him. But he doesn't want to be with you. So get over him. I agree with all that you said here, but It is going to be close to impossible for me to completely get rid of my feeling's living as close to this mm as I do. I talked to H last night and I told him I think we really need to move. H said let them be the ones to move and I know they will never move, so I am a tad bit stuck here. Also, my children and their children are the best of friend's. Their kid's are always at my house. This is just a very tough spot to be in because now the loving feeling's I had for mm have turned to embarrasment and shame. I am not even angry anymore, just feeling very lost. In a strange way I will also miss the friendship we had as couple's. AP
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