fluffy0 Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 I posted yeserday about the unmotivated partner, sorry it turned into two posts, technical probs. Okay, yesterday was the last straw. We were at an internet cafe since we don't have internet at home, and we bth have final exams today. So we were abou to leave, and I gathered up my stuff and and went to look at some magazines while he packed uphis stuff. I had driven there myself so we had two separate cars. I forgot the keys to my car on hte table. Well, he picked them up, but instead of walking over and giving them to me, he apparantly screamed my name six times, so loudly that people started looking at him. Well, its a loud cafe and I didn't hear him, or maybe I did but didn't realize someone was calling my name. I kept looking at stuff, wondering "where is he?". i went back to the table and realized he is gone. I wa a little pissed, considering it was 11:30 at night and the cafe is in a shady part of the city so didn't particularly appreciate being made to walk back to my car by myself. I get back and he is in the parking lot, acting all pissed. He sees my backpack open and zips it up telling me that as always, I've left my wallet for everyone to see. I don't really get mad at this point, just confused. Well, I start walking back to my car and looking around for my keys. I can't find htem so I start panicking a little bit, and decide to go back to the cafe,realizing I must have left them there. At this point he drives by with my keys in hand. He couldn't just give them to me, he needed to make a big production out of it and make me panick and look for them. I am a little annoyed but brush it off and say "oops, thank you, I guess I forgot them." Then he proceeds to tell me the whole story about how he yelled for me six times, and I can see he is angry. At this point i just roll my eyes and get in the car and drive home. I am not one to be able to go to bed angry, so I try to bring it up, and tell him what he did and the way he talked to me was very hurtful and I don't like being talked down to. Well, he tells me I ignored him and made him look stupid and that I can never pay attention. Excuse me, these are my car keys, don't you think it would have been to my benefit to get them if I had heard him? Everything bad that happens to him, evn mild embarasment, he needs to blame on someone else. God only knows why it didn't occur to him to walk five steps and tap me on the shoulder and give me my keys. I wish he had just left them there, I would rather have walked all the way home than have to put up with this crap and have it bother me the day I need to study for my last final. His favors cost too much. And then he tells me his patience is running out. Well, so is mine.
JackJack Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 I didn't read your other post, but from what I gather from this one,he is acting like an ass. If its not something you both feel is workable or worth trying anymore, might be time to move on.
Ladyjane14 Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Fluffy, I had a quick skim of some of your previous posts, and just wanted to tell you.... It's not supposed to be this hard, kiddo. Love is pretty easy right there in the beginning. It's not until later on down the pike that things get more difficult. This guy treats you badly. He showed his ass at the cafe just because he was mildly inconvenienced and let you walk through the dark to the parking lot ALONE to punish you. But guess what?... It's not his place to punish YOU. It's NEVER going to be his place to punish you. And just because he lives with you will never mean that he OWNS you. I think you'd do well to release this one back to the pond. He's not quite big enough.
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