ahsumgurl909 Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 My friend I met back in college back in 2000 and I have been through a lot together. Lots of fights and still remained friends for the past six years. We got high together, cried together, laughed, got clean together, received Christ in our lifes together. And now we are roommates. I recently had a relapse and hid it from her. And let me mention that I have a BF too and she flipped out when ever he comes over. Trying to tell me I cant have him in my room with the door closed etc. So what happened is this. My roommate is basically more fond of me then I knew. And she always acted a fool when guys came around but claimed she is a jealous friend. But when we moved in together and I had my boyfriend here she would pound on the door and say he needs to leave and make him think like something was going on between us. Which really pisted me the F off. So to make a long story short. I like this guy so much and she kept making him uncomfortable when he would come over. So the other night he came by and we were in front of my condo fixing his tail light and she was pist off cuz he was outside with me. So being that I am on parole and was suppose to get off parole on the 8th of this month. She came outside and said he needed to leave. I told her to F off. I am 43 and she is 36. Anyway she proceeds to call the cops and tell them that him and I were in front of the condo making a drug deal and that i was on parole. Well needless to say the police called my PO and told him about her call and now he reinstated my parole for three more years. What would you feel if your bestest friend did this to you? I am crushed over this. I have been trying to give back my number for 12 Fing years and she does this to me.
Pyro Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 My friend I met back in college back in 2000 and I have been through a lot together. Lots of fights and still remained friends for the past six years. We got high together, cried together, laughed, got clean together, received Christ in our lifes together. And now we are roommates. I recently had a relapse and hid it from her. And let me mention that I have a BF too and she flipped out when ever he comes over. Trying to tell me I cant have him in my room with the door closed etc. So what happened is this. My roommate is basically more fond of me then I knew. And she always acted a fool when guys came around but claimed she is a jealous friend. But when we moved in together and I had my boyfriend here she would pound on the door and say he needs to leave and make him think like something was going on between us. Which really pisted me the F off. So to make a long story short. I like this guy so much and she kept making him uncomfortable when he would come over. So the other night he came by and we were in front of my condo fixing his tail light and she was pist off cuz he was outside with me. So being that I am on parole and was suppose to get off parole on the 8th of this month. She came outside and said he needed to leave. I told her to F off. I am 43 and she is 36. Anyway she proceeds to call the cops and tell them that him and I were in front of the condo making a drug deal and that i was on parole. Well needless to say the police called my PO and told him about her call and now he reinstated my parole for three more years. What would you feel if your bestest friend did this to you? I am crushed over this. I have been trying to give back my number for 12 Fing years and she does this to me. Not a friend at all, nor does she act her age. You need to do what you can to get those three years off your probation. Thats a bunch of BS. She is jealous, immature, and downright mean. She is not your mom. You don't have to keep your door open if you have a guy in your room. You need to seriously move out or kick her out.
littlekitty Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 Yep, what Riddler said! That's no friend to do that to you. That was a very low thing to do, especially just to get her own way. I think you need to get her out of your life, I can't see how on earth she can be enhancing it at the moment. She seems very jealous, insecure and immature.
Author ahsumgurl909 Posted December 14, 2006 Author Posted December 14, 2006 Believe me it not even half of what she has put me through. This person has no family and I befriended her in college because she was being humiliated by other students there and I stuck up for her. She has done and been a great friend in many ways but she does the worst things to me that takes away anything good she does. I am getting clean again on like day 3. But its a start. Still I have to dodge my PO until I am. Which will look very suspicious. I just wanted to get off that crap so I can get a good job. She makes more money then I and so she pays the rent and I pay all the bills and we share my car I mostly let her drive it cuz she works farther away. And my boss picks me up. I even put the gas in the car most of the time. The way I feel about this whole situation is that she wanted this to happen. Because then I cant get a better job and move out on my own. She has controled, and manipulated me since 2000. Im seriously wanting to just give up on myself after this because I feel I rather die then deal with her anymore.
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