Guest Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 My girlfriend and i recently broke up and i cant believe she did this so she can party and be free. Anyway, during the relationship we hung out with my core friends and now after the breakup shes talking and hanging out with them all the time. They are also all talking with her and no ones talking to me. Real friends eh? Anyway i don't know what to do in this situation. Its only going to hurt hanging out with them maybe i should stay away from that group for awhile? She also works right next to me and has all my co workers sucking up to her and its making it tough to heal but im getting there. I'm feeling extremely isolated with this whole situation. She took my heart, my friends and my co-workers. Shes throwing her number out all over the place to guys *sigh*. I guess get through this holiday season and keep staying strong. I just hate being alone and not having someone to cuddle with or talk to every night =/
Guest Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Any advice on how to deal with this would help. Im focusing on me as i said right now, working out etc.. getting over it. But it does hurt. I took down my myspace so i dont have to look or feel the urge to look at any of them including her.
notmakingsense Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Sounds like a tough situation... but it also sounds like these weren't true or deep friends if they aren't being sensitive about the breakup and providing support to you. I think the best way you can make yourself feel better is to get out and make new friends and start working on a new social circle. Ask youself why these so called friends are aligning with her, and don't make the same mistake of choosing friends who can't be loyal to you. The holidays are especially a tough time to be alone. Hopefully you have family that you can hang out with.
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