Guest Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 Hi, down the pub I met one of the barmaids she was working away (It was v busy, didn't really have time to chat) but I was there till they stopped serving, e t.c, most people had gone and me and my mate were left there and the 3 barmaids sat down had a break, drink, e.t.c, so me and my mate started talking to them, although we were both pretty hammered, so probably didn't impress them lol, but anyway I quite like one of them and was thinking about asking for her number, so next time I go in, i'm gonna appologise about how drunk I was and then maybe ask for her number to see if we could get to know each other abit better sometime, does that sound like a good idea or should I talk to her abit more then after a few times of talking to her ask for her number and see if she wants to go out sometime...which sounds the best idea, tbh I don't even know if she has a b/f or anything so I need to find that out first - how should I go about that? should I ask her myself or get my mate to ask her? Cheers for any advice!
TYASAFAHICSI Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 Strike while the iron is hot you bloke! Go in apologise for your behaviour and say you enjoyed talking to her after her busy night and wanted to know if you might be able to meet for lunch or dinner sometime. If she has a BF she will be flattered and tell you. If not, or if it is not serious, she will still be flattered and tell you sure. If she is not into you, she will still be flattered and tell you that she has a bf. No losers there Go for it shag a good one!
Guest Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 Tonight I was planning to go in and ask with my mate if I could have her number and see if she wanted to go somewhere to know each other abit better, but now my mate has said he can't really afford it tonight so he's not going, so I said well lets go in for literally a couple i'll talk to her, hopefully get her number than he can go home and count his pennies, he said "hmmmm maybe" basically saying no, Now I'm not expecting him to go in to the pub with me and hold my hand, e.t.c, but I just want a mate with me just so it doesn't make me look like a loner! Anyway I'm off work at the moment (Holiday time) so i'm not sure when she works anyway but I was thinking about going in now, during dinner time to see if she works, I would be on my own but would that be a good idea? or should I go in at night with my mate?! And what should I say just talk to her then drop asking for her number into conversation or just go in with intent to ask for her number?! Cheers!
Dad_of_3 Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 for me, i would go in to let her know what a night you had. You apologise for any bad behaviour and would like to make it up to her. dnt ask for her number, give her yours. Put the onus on her, let her make the call. You'll know then. My 2 cents anyway ...
Guest Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Hiya me again, I've still not had time to go down the pub and its looking like I might not even be able to get down till early next year because I am going away over Christmas but my mate who went with me when I first met her asked for her e-mail (MSN) address for some reason and she gave it him, so my mate let me have it, i've added it and was hopeing she would come on MSN so we could chat but she hasn't, so my mate says why don't I e-mail her?? Tbh, I think I e-mailed her she'd be abit freaked out about it, the same if I started speaking to her on MSN, is it a good idea to send her an e-mail/chat on MSN or should I delete it and wait till I see her down the pub?
Dad_of_3 Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 My opinion, and its just that. You're putting way to much thought into this. yes, I am sure you are very attracted to this girl, but you are starting to sound like its cosuming you. Dont get me wrong, fools in love is always such a nice notion but I think you might need to put it in perspective. Is this girl going to be the love of your life ? If she is on your mind, get down there and pass her your number ! I dont want to pry but what is it that is holding yopu back from going back and seeing her ? personally I wouldnt email her from second hand information. Sounds like you are a bit of a coward or didnt have the guts to ask yourself. I'm sure some girls would find that quite sweet, but at the end of the day, you havent made the choice to act on this yourself. If its that much to you, go on down and roll the dice ! Otherwise, dont pay it any mind till the New Year. It might seem a nice 'if' she remembers you herself when you are down there. Best of luck !
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