tnguyen8485 Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 Ok im so lost can someone please help me!.. ive been with her since high school and in the relationship almost 6 years. I started out with the relationship very wrong. i told her i was a virgin. and i know i am wrong. but i told her my reasons. she found out from her ex best friend 3months into our relationship. she said she wanted to make it work, and to work it out. 5 1/2 years later she is still mad at me to this day. i know where i went wrong, but ever since that day i did everything a girl would want. i've been nothing but a man and gettleman to this girl. shes 21 now i know we are still young, its just so hard for me to let her go, and to think about her being with another guy disgusts me. the problem started about 2 weeks ago, when she wanted to go to her friends house and i was ok with it, i never stoped her from doing wat she wants. so i told her to go. when she went there she talked to her ex-(boyfriend in high school which she dated like for 2months) on the phone for 3 hours. i found out the hard way. then she said it meant nothing. now she said she wants her space. and just this past weekend she said she wanted to go out once agian i was ok but i hesitated. then 3 oclock came around i didnt see her home so i went to look for her and found her with her ex. and she said she was just talking. and i dont kno wat to think. i really feel for her. we bought a house together and lived together for the past 2years. i would never expected this, and now she says she wants to move back to her mom and find out wat she wants, she dont know wat she wants. and i am afraid of losing her. i never gave her the idea i wanted her to leave or pushed her away. i always wanted to make her happy. i do so much for her to make her life easier, like supporting her telling her to quit her job and to go to school and get a degree, paying for her school, bought her things she wanted, paid for the living expenses, i never asked her for money, only when i needed help. i just dont kno where i went wrong. i kno what she done to me was wrong, and its so hard for me to let go. what am i to think or do. can someone give me advice. ps. she said she wants me to keep the house, rite now i pay for her gym membership and she pays for my cell phone, she said she wants me to keep the cell phone and to keep her on the gym membership. i feel like im a rebound, if it dont workout for her. she said she wants to date, go out with other guys. or whatever, she wants to do whatever she wants and not to have to worry about what i think, but still want me to keep these agreements.
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