pureinheart Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 I don't have a clue in this area....men have always been the ones to come on to me, make the first move as far as if they are interested. Now I'm attracted more to the not so aggressive type. I met this guy at work and he is more on the shy side, but does talk to me....he doesn't flirt at all, and can tell that's not his style....he's just a really nice guy. What are some of the more subtle clues that someone is interested?
Trialbyfire Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 The shy guys are cute. They tend to blush, but will shoot little glances at you. Some will blush and not be able to meet your eyes. Good luck.
barfool Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 Yep, I agree with that. See if you can catch him in one of his glances. By his reaction you should be able to tell his interest.
Krytellan Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 They will find ways to be in your immediate proximity. If you're not paying enough attention, it may seem random. But to someone observant, it is obvious that they are going out of their way to be near you... especially when they say anything to get you talking to them.
Author pureinheart Posted December 13, 2006 Author Posted December 13, 2006 Wow...you all are good! Thank you so much for the tips. This particular area I'm working in, all of the guys are extremely respectful, and nobody wants to make anyone uncomfortable with come ons. The reason I am not forward is I really don't "look", meaning there is not a desire to check men out....to me, men are people, and don't care what they look like....like Trialbyfire said in another post, either there is a connection or there isn't. Once again thank you for the very good advice!
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