DanielMadr Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Oh God, yes. Same story here. They don't appreciate you and they're way too difficult to establish a connection with. Most are emotionally unavailable or somewhat jaded because they've had so many great-looking and interesting girlfriends/lovers already. You're just another notch on the bedpost, par for the course. That's why I've taken to reading a bunch of Machiavellian psychological warfare books. Three I recommend: The Art of Seduction (Robert Greene), Catch Him and Keep Him (Christian Carter a.k.a. David DeAngelo), and How to Get Anyone to Do Anything (David J. Lieberman). They are true men of genius. Don't waste your money, just download them off eMule. attractive men = evil....PREJUDICE & Soure Grapes These books youve mentioned.....interesting books but it does not work. Strong people are not prone to manipulation and can see right trough it + you have to back it up with your inner self. And in the end of day you recognize that the inner self/attitude and physical appearance (especially in a girl) is most important. Tatctics, strategies and mumbo jumbo is not desired.
stillafool Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Well since your friend is beautiful, nice and has an ivy league education maybe should she go to places where guys who have the same credentials hang out. Since most ivy league educated guys won't date women who aren't ivy league graduates, she sounds right up their alley.
StayClose Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 I have never understood this. Men never think ANYONE is out of their lague. They can be old fat and balding and still think they have a shot with 19 year old supermodel. Also men tend to read anything as a sign of interest. Even random polite conversation. From where I have worked and went out all the beautifull girls have men falling all over them all the time. Perhaps the "too good" thing was invented my women who aren't that good but only think that they are? Those really hot women can be single, but that's due to them being extremly picky and turning down about 10 men per day. Some people have what I call the "Groucho Marx syndrome." Groucho was Jewish is an age where the best country clubs wouldn't admit Jews, so he joked that any country club that would take him wouldn't meet his standards. I susepct the same is true to attractive women who can't get dates. It's not that men aren't interested, it's that they don't feel attracted to men who show interest in them. The only feel attracted to men who aren't interested.
StayClose Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 attractive men = evil....PREJUDICE & Soure Grapes These books youve mentioned.....interesting books but it does not work. Strong people are not prone to manipulation and can see right trough it + you have to back it up with your inner self. And in the end of day you recognize that the inner self/attitude and physical appearance (especially in a girl) is most important. Tatctics, strategies and mumbo jumbo is not desired. My problem with the manipulation books is that when you're in that mindset, women become the enemy against whom you are fighting. Then I started wondering to myself, if women are really so evil that I have to scheme & plot to get them, why to I want them around in the first place?
Recommended Posts