silentalways Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 The issue is that I'm more than halfway convinced that he broke up with me because it was what he thought I wanted...that he thought I was miserable and wanted to make me happy. That isn't exactly what he said, but other things he said made me suspect that he thinks I'm the one that wanted out! In my message, I make it clear that, as far as I'm concerned, he broke up with me! The main reason I have no interest in getting back with him is because I realize now that he did understand what I said I wanted but he didn't believe me. In fact, just a few days before he broke up with me , he asked me point blank if I wanted to stop seeing him...and I said NO! ...but he always had this unfortunate tendency to give more weight to his perceptions than to my actual words. If I please tell me this is not true that we have gone thru of this when we didn't have 2
notmakingsense Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 What were the actions you exhibited that made him ignore your words? Do I unserstand you correctly that you are sticking with the break-up simply becuase he was second-guessing your words based upon your actions?
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