valgrl Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 i dont know what to do- my husband and i got married 7 months ago, we were dating for 4 years before we got married........well we are now taking a "break" from each other b/c neither one of us is happy-----and he doesn't think that trying to change is the answer and i do-----------so now i am home alone with our 2 dogs and he is staying at his friends house to think of what he wants to do---how in the hell can you think about your marriage at your friends house b/c all they do when they are together is get drunk and play video games---how is that the place for someone to think weather the marriage should end------i am just really confused and i don't know what to do anymore
FlyingHigh Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 What are some of your issues? What were each of your expectations of each other and the marriage? Any counseling in the horizon? What are those "changes" that you two need to do? For him to bail out and shack at his friends house says a lot about his committment and maturity level. What changed? On the other hand, would you want to be with a guy who won't own up to his responsibility as a husband/partner? You also need to look at yourself if there is something in your behavior/expecatation that have changed since the marriage that prompted him to hook up with his drinking buddies? After all, he still has to wake up in the morning and face the world. Unless of course this is his character...bail out at the first sign of trouble.
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