laxcakes777 Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 There is this one girl at my church who I liked from the first moment I saw her. We have only had a little small talk and now it has been two years! However, I'm now hearing rumors that she might like me too. Does this seem a bit odd, that she would just start liking me after two years?
bluescreenlife Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 who cares, if you like each other ask her out.
IpAncA Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 There is this one girl at my church who I liked from the first moment I saw her. We have only had a little small talk and now it has been two years! However, I'm now hearing rumors that she might like me too. Does this seem a bit odd, that she would just start liking me after two years? No it doesn't seem odd. Maybe she just started developing feelings for you or something. If you like her and you know that she likes you, then start talking to her more and then when your ready ask her if she doesn't ask you. Good Luck!
Sand&Water Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 RE: You have to start somewhere, Laxcakes777. Does this seem a bit odd, that she would just start liking me after two years? Yes. A bit odd, but not too far fetched. A woman just doesn't start liking a man out of the blue. She has to relate to him with an event/concept/experience. Make the first move. Get to know her; talk more and you'll receive more. I suggest you don't bluntly ask her out momentarily. Take the time to get comfortable with her, as a person. IF you don't input effort, she'll reject you. Good Luck. Sand&Water
lady_of_magrathea Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 RE: You have to start somewhere, Laxcakes777. Does this seem a bit odd, that she would just start liking me after two years? Yes. A bit odd, but not too far fetched. A woman just doesn't start liking a man out of the blue. She has to relate to him with an event/concept/experience. Make the first move. Get to know her; talk more and you'll receive more. I suggest you don't bluntly ask her out momentarily. Take the time to get comfortable with her, as a person. IF you don't input effort, she'll reject you. Good Luck. Sand&Water I agree with Sand & Water. Maybe she just needed to have a conversation/experience with you. If you've been waiting around for two years, why haven't you asked her out before now? Go for it before she concludes you're not interested! You know she likes you, so what have you got to lose?
dgiirl Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 not strange at all. Maybe she liked you from the beginning but never told anyone. Maybe until she got to know you, then she started developing feelings. Or maybe she was in a relationship when she met you and thus ignored all feelings of interest. I was married for 8 years and worked with a guy for 6. Never once did I think of him in that way. But when I became single, my eyes started to open up and I realized he was pretty cute.
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