Krytellan Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 If I had $10 for every time a women told me she was busy, I'd be rich enough that women wouldn't tell me they were busy. Now that is the most beautifully condemning (and truthful) statement I've ever read. Well done.
Author Mermaiden Posted December 13, 2006 Author Posted December 13, 2006 You ditched him first. You didnt have sex with him even when you were making out. You are still not so sure about him. This hurts. He doesnt want to be hurt again and probably has a few doubts about you in terms of your integrity and interest. And you want him only because he started to be a challenge - busy. I had integrity and morals not to sleep with him the first time. And I was happy & thrilled to be in contact with him again until he started to go awol. When he made a 180 in under a week it hurt my brain. So please be quiet now before I send Hans Brix after you.
DanielMadr Posted December 14, 2006 Posted December 14, 2006 I had integrity and morals not to sleep with him the first time. And I was happy & thrilled to be in contact with him again until he started to go awol. When he made a 180 in under a week it hurt my brain. So please be quiet now before I send Hans Brix after you. Good one. You send me a letter telling me how angry you are Immoral is sleeping with despot, relative, minor, non-human and with whoever for selfish reasons (to use ). Sleeping with someone you find attractive and he is not your relative etc. is absolutely OK. blue balls are not...If you dont want to return "favor" dont take the favor
Author Mermaiden Posted December 15, 2006 Author Posted December 15, 2006 So he called me international long distance tonight. All of sudden all hot and heavy and missing me. Wanted to talk about how much he desired me. I handled him very well and am proud of myself. He wouldnt give me straight answers about what he has been up to. Just repeated the 'busy' line again. He kept saying lets talk about the future and being together. I wish I could trust him but talking to him is like trying to catch a salmon one-handed. Slippery and impossible to grasp firmly. When I finally laid down ground rules that we need to be friends and date before instantly being sex maniacs he suddenly said he was late do something and had to run. Yeah I have to run too. Away from him for several months or possibly forever.
whichwayisup Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Remember, actions speaks louder than words. His words (sex talk and flirting) said one thing, but when you confronted him on it, he balked and his actions have spoken very loud and clear. Don't waste your time on him. He's so not worth it.
Guest Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 Ok, listen, I'm a guy. And this is no mystery to me what is really happening. See... when a guy likes a girl, he will TRY to win her over. When a guy doesn't like a girl, he won't try. It's basically that easy. The only reason he hasn't dumped you on your butt is because it's easier for him to string you along. Plus, he can get some security in knowing that there's some girl waiting for him, while he goes out on the prowl looking for some new kittens. Get it? My advice, just ignore him. Chances are he'll call u every 2 weeks or so and cry about missing you (to get laid), but just ignore it. Ok peace!!
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