CrushedOrgans Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I always had a preference for flippy cup. haha, we call it flip cup, but that i like that. 'flippy cup'.
Pyro Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 haha, we call it flip cup, but that i like that. 'flippy cup'. Maybe that is the correct way of saying it. I don't know, but I have always said flippy.
Touche Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 i've done that. i think i was an 18 year old freshman at the time, and my then-boyfriend was right next to me. i wouldn't do that now, but i was beer pong princess then, and nothing was stripping me of my title. i guess it just depends on the person, the time, and the moment. some are born to flash. and i don't have a webcam. DAMN YOU! ..........................
DanielMadr Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Was she drunk? Women can get pretty sexual when they are drunk, and do stupid things like flashing their boobs at men. I've had lots of friends who have done it....but watch out, they are usually the most sexually repressive women I've ever known. It's like wild on the outside, but frigid on the inside. Go figure. I never was a boob flasher. Leg flashing was more my speed. In my opinion, boob flashing should be reserved for one's boyfriend, not random men at a party. That behavior screams attention whore to me. Who would want a girlfriend who flashes other men? And, believe me, this girl, if a habitual flasher, will keep doing it, even if she has a boyfriend. But, sometimes even a nice girls gets too wild. Maybe that's the case? I kinda doubt it, though. As always 100% agree. Flashing boobs is certainly better than kissing or making out with random guys but it is still RED FLAG. You cant respect girl who is flashing her boobs for crowd of desperate guys, there is more than 90% chance she has some serious problems. Majority of so called attention whores is frigid and very insecure. When you get to know them you can see that.
lindya Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I've never flashed my boobs, but when I was younger I certainly occasionally did other stupid things when I was out....so personally if I happened to see another woman flashing her boobs in a club I'd probably just think it was an amusing diversion rather than something I'd be overly judgemental about. Why do people do these daft, sexualised things? Drink, being in a highly charged environment, looking for attention, wanting to create a bit of excitement and liven things up a bit. Don't we all occasionally get the irresistible urge to do something slightly shocking or funny just for the hell of it?
DanielMadr Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 The girl who flashed me at the party, actualy flashed me more then once. She did have a bf who I've never met and wasnt at the party. The first time I got flashed by her it was while I was trying to throw a ping pong ball into a cup of beer it was supposed to distract me... after that it just came out for no reason realy. Oh thats sweet of her She is probably a little wild and.....open or just too competitive . . . Eye opener.....Girls go to clubs for ego boost from drooling guys, some of them will flirt with you and make sexual suggestion with no intetion to seal the deal. They have their boyfriends (jerk or rich ugly wussy) and want only assurance of their feminity (Am I still in demand?). Attention whores are responsible for majority of confused guys. They give you mixed signals, they play you to stay interested in them but wont let you too close, they only feed on your attention. Learn how to recognize them and avoid them.
lindya Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Is it just me, or could people on this board do with lightening up a bit? Given all the pursed lips and disapproval about silly/harmless crap that people do when they're drunk, I can't imagine a Loveshack outing would be too much of a blast.
Porn_Guy Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I was at a party this weekend and was flashed by a cute girl with some really nice boobs quite a few times. I mean it was a flashing extravagansa. anyways just curiouse why do girls flash? I mean I know I really enjoyed it but what does she get out of it? wow i've never seen real boobs. well i once saw my sisters by accident but that doesnt count
DanielMadr Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Is it just me, or could people on this board do with lightening up a bit? Given all the pursed lips and disapproval about silly/harmless crap that people do when they're drunk, I can't imagine a Loveshack outing would be too much of a blast. Positives of boobs flashing are well known, we probably tend to point out the negative side of things. Being "lady" in society and "whore" in bedroom NOT vice versa thats what it is all about.
lindya Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Being "lady" in society and "whore" in bedroom NOT vice versa thats what it is all about. No, it's not "all" about that. Sometimes we're more about having fun and being whoever we feel like being to care whether the gentlemen find us acceptable and ladylike - and I understand that many of the gentlemen feel similarly in that sometimes they just want to cut loose and have a good time without worrying about what the ladies think of it all.
DanielMadr Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 No, it's not "all" about that. Sometimes we're more about having fun and being whoever we feel like being to care whether the gentlemen find us acceptable and ladylike - and I understand that many of the gentlemen feel similarly in that sometimes they just want to cut loose and have a good time without worrying about what the ladies think of it all. Yeah. You are free. Be it. Be what you can be. Just Do it. If you dont care about what gentleman thinks....then dont be disappointed when gentleman finds you unacceptable....it is his freedom to do so If gentleman is flashing his whatever he is not gentleman anymore Ive heard one female comedian on Jay Leno and she said: I dont know why these girls are flashing their boobs. It is not necessary...I have two brothers you know, they would hump a couch. And in five years these same girls will complain about the fact that they cant find any decent guy to stay with them....I wonder why Some girls are wilder than others. Too much is simply too much. Im not prude. If the girl in her eighteens flashed a few guys.....**** happens. If she is still in the mood 'I dont care about anybody I just wanna have fun and attention', then she is nutcase.
lindya Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 If you dont care about what gentleman thinks....then dont be disappointed when gentleman finds you unacceptable....it is his freedom to do so I'm not completely impervious to the views of other people, as that would be disrespecful - but I don't allow myself to be bound by those who have rigid perceptions of how others should behave. I believe that people like that go through life searching for things to disapprove of, and life's far too short to be overly concerned about them.
DanielMadr Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 No, it's not "all" about that. You would be suprised, believe me Loyalty and modesty is highly appreciated in woman....flashing boobs, wild partying with "girlfriends" every saturday, seeking attention from strange drooling guys is not appreciated. And Nicki is also true....the very same girl who is wearing skimpy clothes and flashing boobs is in most cases very insecure and even frigid (cold personality, emotional problems). ANd Im not speaking about real exhibicionist girl who do this through submissive/humiliation pleasure.
DanielMadr Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I'm not completely impervious to the views of other people, as that would be disrespecful - but I don't allow myself to be bound by those who have rigid perceptions of how others should behave. I believe that people like that go through life searching for things to disapprove of, and life's far too short to be overly concerned about them. OK. I see. But I still think everything has its limits. And flashing of boobs is questionable. Btw flashing boobs or partying wont make your life longer or more fulfilling.
lindya Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 OK. I see. But I still think everything has its limits. And flashing of boobs is questionable. Btw flashing boobs or partying wont make your life longer or more fulfilling. I'm not a boob flasher, but I think people are far too complex to be assessed and written off on the basis of a bit of foolish behaviour they might indulge in when they've had a bit too much to drink at a party.
DanielMadr Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I'm not a boob flasher, but I think people are far too complex to be assessed and written off on the basis of a bit of foolish behaviour they might indulge in when they've had a bit too much to drink at a party. Yes I agree with that. People change and it is foolish to not forgive them once they change....and I do believe people can change. But 1. Non-alcoholic is still better than cured alcoholic 2. If you (I dont mean you lindya) know you cant behave when drunk....then dont get drunk 3. vanity and pride are not characteristics for happy survival
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