shortnsassy Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 i got this E-mail ithought it was from the man iam haveing an affair with. he denies it. it was from the 360 website. it was pictures of 63 women all of different pictures. the user name was his first name, but rong letter in his last name. but it sounded so much like him. see some one had hack into my yahoo account, this person had read all of my mail. and the person that sent me them pictures i freak out and tought it was my boy friend. i thought he was messing with my mind. i call my boyfriend all kinds of nasty things to him. but after i realize what happen i told him i was sorry to him i really did thought it was him. now he tells me he is not going to put up with my crazy ****. that iam crazy. i havent heard from him about 7 days. iam trying my best to hang in there not to E-mail him.. do you all out there think i was in the rong. after i made a mistake. i been haveing affair with this man for 9 years. today i got thinking maybe this what took to end the affair. tell me your thoughts? im so inlove with this man. when they talk about addiction i have it with this man. i cant seeto let go of him. this what affair does to your heart soul mind and body, you do crazy things that a person dont normal do. need you advise,
norajane Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 9 years?? Consider this a blessing in disguise. It's time to walk away from this relationship and break your addiction. There are other men, single men, better men out there for you.
Sup Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Have you ever thought about coming clean with your husband, if you're married....
Author shortnsassy Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 :( no.... my husband and i lives in the same house. but we dont live as man and wife. he has not touch me in 5 years.
Mr. Lucky Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 :( no.... my husband and i lives in the same house. but we dont live as man and wife. Why? he has not touch me in 5 years. And...why? Mr. Lucky
Author shortnsassy Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 why. threw the years my husband has not been sexly active with me. he never pay any attention to me. i got lonely and had the affair. this man i have in affair with he treats my like a women. i think my husband feels i have with out on him but its too late. now he doesnt want to touch me at all. my husband is a sick man . i only stay with him to take care of him. but he does still works. after all he took care of me. when a man doesnt please his women. you remenmber they go looking, i believe a man will do the same. after ll he gets horney too.
Mr. Lucky Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 my husband is a sick man . i only stay with him to take care of him. But if you don't like, love, desire or sleep with other, why stay? Why not start a new life, perhaps with your new man? Mr. Lucky
Guest Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 Yes. Wipe The Past Out. Start Over. Its The Only Way.
Marcus as the Peanut Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 In the of chance ,that you are real!! Get divorced , and then get some help
cbl Posted December 21, 2006 Posted December 21, 2006 Consider this a blessing in disguise. It's time to walk away from this relationship and break your addiction. i agree with norajane. you don't know what you have gotten yourself into. i got an email from this girl who claimed to be my MM's exOW but then it turned out to be his W (i think - i checked the IP and it's from his home country where his W lives) and i got a few more afterwards. it's basically used to mess with my mind, and his.... long story. it might not be your case but you have to think if it's really worth it to have this relationship. maybe invest your energy in building a better life with your H. take care.
Seen_It_All Posted December 23, 2006 Posted December 23, 2006 ...this person had read all of my mail. and the person that sent me them pictures i freak out and tought it was my boy friend. He's not your "boyfriend." He's basically a slimeball you've been having sex with for 9 years. now he tells me he is not going to put up with my crazy ****. that iam crazy. i havent heard from him about 7 days. Almost sounds as though he engineered this whole Yahoo picture 'scam' to finally extricate himself from a LONG 9-year affair. It's probably just not exciting for him anymore. Hey, even cheating liars get bored and need to seek out new side dishes after a certain amount of time, surely you can understand that? You might get better responses on the affairs board.
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