pureinheart Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 We can never predict, nor know the true mind of another....in my last M my H cheated on me horribly, so fear caused me to put him on a short leash...he did cheat again, although was it the "leash" or is he just determined to cheat? I may never know the answer..... When you know that you will be ok no matter what he does, and this is so hard, then the fears will vanish. When I was in counceling...marriage restoration... the point that all of the giving couples were driving home, is you can have a good marriage no matter what.....give him to God. In my opinion, from reading your posts, you are a level headed person that is extremely caring and nice. I don't think your H wants to loose that.....Bonehead is right, 9 mo is a long time to go for a person that is determined to cheat. Herenow, for me, the OW thing was just too much and caused me to look at all aspects of my life....it's as if everything thing that I knew to be true and right is all coming together now....all of the truth that I've learned is real now....chances are it was too much for him too and like me, will NEVER do it again
puddleofmud Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Everything about you is what one would desire to be whether given your situation or not: Despite all obstacles you've a loving, compassionate open heart and mind. Please accept my admiration...
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