JohnHesse Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 My ex broke up with me 7 months ago, i haven't seen her around in a while, but we have alot of mutual friends. I don't know what to do about it. I ran into her a couple of weeks ago, and get the message that she wants to be friends, but she has a new bf now, and she brings him to the events that i could run into her at. Truthfully, i still have feelings for her, but see the faults in our relationship. i still dont think i want to be friends with her though. so do i just avoid the events she's at, i don't think i would avoid it if its something i really want to go to, but at the same time, it does make me have less of a good time. i don't know what to do about it... any thoughts would be very helpful. thanks.
inde4544 Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I would say stay away if everything is sill really bothering you but once you feel somewhat normal do whatever you want. You cant let an ex dictate where you hang out at. Depending on the situation leave and go somewhere else if you feel uncomfortable. I would just say hi politely and move on and have a good time if you have to be around her.
fabulousgal Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 i get it. i gave up many close friends bc they were mutual. its also been 7 mos for me, i won't go places i think he may be. for some reason he still makes me feel bad....
FallenTree Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I actually skipped a concert that I really was excited about, to avoid the ex. But even though it was decent-sized venue, I'd have seen him. My friends who used my tickets were right behind him in line & said "he was everywhere." Good thing I skipped that one.
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