sarah05 Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 Ok LS, I have posted in other forumns and it was in the marriage one. I have been dating my bf (or at least i think that's what I can him....read on) for 1 year and 3 months. Recently we have been arguing and said a few things that we didn't really mean. Well he said that he needed somtime to think. That was 1 week ago. Well on Thurs. night he finally tells me that eh doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. He wants to "experience life". I took it as breaking up so I told everyone we did "break up". Well word gets around in a really small town and he calls me up and said that we were supposed to be on "break". He said he just wanted to be friends and work towards our relationship. I was heartbroken, I haven't been able to eat anything. My energy level is shot and to top it all off he told me this a week before my finals. I don't know what to do. Another thing is, is that he told me on a phone conversation that I would have been engaged before the end of this year, if we didn't argue so much. The arguments we over tiny things, I didn't think they would have been huge enough for this. So yeah, in the other posts I talked about my dream ring. yep that $6,000, ring. He was going to propose to me with it. How am I supposed to wait around and be happy when I want our relationship back. It seems like everything I do is wrong, like when we casually talk I'll touch his hand and it's like we're in kindergarten and he doesn't like girls kinda deal. I want things back to the way they used to be. I hope he can forget the things I said to him, because I think I'm past it. Hopefully it doesn't go farther than a month for him to figure out what he wants. Please help.
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