Is he a total player ?

[Mermaiden]

I have been overseas for my career for the last 2 months or so. I will be back in the States for good just before Xmas.

Before I left I was reunited with an ex boyfriend.

I dated him before I dated my exBF who abused and controlled me.

Actually I was dating him long distance and my abusive ex was the one who convinced me to break up with this guy.

 

He found my myspace page and we got together to talk for 3 hours. We also kissed but I then I stopped him from anything more. And he totally cool and said he wanted to be my friend first even though he was crazy attracted to me.

 

I was so happy to see him again and he acted nothing but thrilled and I was on cloud nine.

 

I then left for a 3 month work assignment in Europe.

We have kept in close contact via email and texting.

I really thought we were bonding.....

 

But last week after he told me Im so attractive, good and he cant wait to start dating when I'm home for good, he has suddenly disappeared !

 

He has totally gone awol on me. I found him online briefly 5 days ago and all he could reply was that he was super busy and couldnt talk and that he wished me well moving home. (wished me well - wtf ?)

 

Then he signed off. We have been texting each other when he was home Thursday/Friday/Saturday nights without any exception.

 

But he was not online at all the last few days. I guess my biggest clue is that he has put his myspace page on private and has taken down his personal ads on match and yahoo.

Im thinking he met someone. Agree ?

 

Should I even bother contacting him again ? Should I confront him ?

When we dated he was a great guy back then.

I thought it was amazing and wonderful that he was in touch after so many years apart and I was looking forward to seeing him when Im home for good.

Im confused that he could be so ardent and excited about me and then suddenly turn cold and vanish. :(

 

I felle like such a hopeless romantic to have put trust and faith in him and I feel disgusted wih myself to be this broken up over him.

[Mermaiden]

Also I forgot to add that he started to seme anxious just before Thanksgiving, and complained a bit that he wished I was back home already and it was so long to wait until end of December.