silentalways Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 hi everyone, just thought i would get some advice before i did anything regarding an issue i just thought about. i am musician, of sorts, and an ex gf of mine from a year ago did some recording together, and i just realized that on a number of music sites, her pix and name [things like that] are still kicking around. what i am wondering is this - she broke things off with me, and basically told me that she wanted zero contact forever [no reason given, basically things got rough at the end] so, is it appropriate to still have those things up online? would that be upsetting and should i remove them? i was thinking i should because last thing i want is anymore drama but i would hate that to come across as being negative in any way. a year is a long time and because we have had no contact, the plain fact is we have both moved on with our lives and i don't want that to somehow be a problem for the person i am seeing now but i also don't want the ex to feel i removed them out of anger or any negative emotion - i just think that the fact that she really wanted no contact of any kind, and i still have those things posted might be a sore point. i think i should delete them. what do u all think?
jerbear Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 hi everyone, Hello! is it appropriate to still have those things up online? would that be upsetting and should i remove them? i was thinking i should because last thing i want is anymore drama but i would hate that to come across as being negative in any way How would it be negative if both of you moved on? Plus she wanted NC, so why would she look and be upset enough to contact you? I would not worry about negative or being hateful. Leave it up or take it down. If it affects your current relationship and your SO complains, then by all means take consideration of your SO's input.
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