Author stillhere Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 Has nothing to do with MM or no MM, being married or not being married. Bottomline LS is addictive and that's why many members are here alot. I swear they ought to put a waiver in when you join about how hooked one will get to this place! I agree 100%!!! This place CAN be awesome most of the time!! You meet a lot of interesting and not so interesting people, and sometimes make some amazing friends!!!
puddleofmud Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Just an observation w/ comment: why does one have to "go out" to have fun or be happy? I rarely go "out" because I don't have a desire to do so. I am just a silly settled homebody because I adore my home and I love living with ME. I don't go out just to be OUT. I go out to see or do something I love, otherwise its a waste of my time. Unless I am feeling like having a nice dinner somewhere then why go out? Unless there is a great play, concert, or gathering w/ beloved friends then why go out? Unless there is a sweet little Bed and Breakfast and some backroads I want to travel then why bother? I don't feel insecure without partying or being "someone where else" or w/ "someone else", thus I don't feel forced to get out of my little house until I effing want to. If I CHOOSE to sit around and chat on my 'puter then I feel that's my business and don't feel that I must defend myself. I may do anything I wish because I create my own evironment. If I don't like it then I will do something about it on my own terms.
movinon05 Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Just an observation w/ comment: why does one have to "go out" to have fun or be happy? I rarely go "out" because I don't have a desire to do so. I am just a silly settled homebody because I adore my home and I love living with ME. I don't go out just to be OUT. I go out to see or do something I love, otherwise its a waste of my time. Unless I am feeling like having a nice dinner somewhere then why go out? Unless there is a great play, concert, or gathering w/ beloved friends then why go out? Unless there is a sweet little Bed and Breakfast and some backroads I want to travel then why bother? I don't feel insecure without partying or being "someone where else" or w/ "someone else", thus I don't feel forced to get out of my little house until I effing want to. If I CHOOSE to sit around and chat on my 'puter then I feel that's my business and don't feel that I must defend myself. I may do anything I wish because I create my own evironment. If I don't like it then I will do something about it on my own terms. Well put!!!!!!!!!!! I agree wholeheartedly! Now if someone would just wash those dishes in my sink that are waiting for me while I sit at this computer, I would really appreciate it! lol!
Author stillhere Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 I'm glad to see you back MO!!! How have you been? POM, i agree!! I would much rather sit home (since that is what i was forced to do for 7 years, you kinda get used to it after awhile!) than party my heart out!! That would be the reason for my break.
movinon05 Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I'm glad to see you back MO!!! How have you been? POM, i agree!! I would much rather sit home (since that is what i was forced to do for 7 years, you kinda get used to it after awhile!) than party my heart out!! That would be the reason for my break. Hi SH! I'm great! You seem to be doing well too from what I can see! The difference is now I have the freedom to sit in or go out whenever I want! And I do both! Whenever the mood strikes me! (btw, I just guilted myself into doing the dishes, so I can feel free to chat w/o that on my mind! lol)
Author stillhere Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 Hi SH! I'm great! You seem to be doing well too from what I can see! The difference is now I have the freedom to sit in or go out whenever I want! And I do both! Whenever the mood strikes me! (btw, I just guilted myself into doing the dishes, so I can feel free to chat w/o that on my mind! lol) I did that last night!!! I so need to invest in a dishwasher!!!! Yeah, i'm doing pretty darn well. I'm enjoying the present!!
yousaveme Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Im so hyper I feel like I could run around the block a thousand times
Author stillhere Posted December 12, 2006 Author Posted December 12, 2006 Im so hyper I feel like I could run around the block a thousand times May i ask why you have ants in your pants?
GreenEyedLady Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 This post is truly sad to me. the weekends where everyone is out having fun and doing something with their so you are all home on a computer. Yes you were alone. Everyone else was spending their weekend living their life while yours is on hold waiting for the mm to be done with his weekend family obligations. Noforgiveness, I forgive you...I hope that one day you will find happiness...and not feel the need to try to make others as unhappy as yourself...
kymberann Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I don't need a dish washer....at least that is what I tell my children why I had them for! To do the dishes...cept, lately that hasn't worked, there is a pile waiting to be done....because I am on LS too much to be around to remind them to do the dishes! Ugghh, never happy!
lovernotafighter Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 This post is truly sad to me. the weekends where everyone is out having fun and doing something with their so you are all home on a computer. Yes you were alone. Everyone else was spending their weekend living their life while yours is on hold waiting for the mm to be done with his weekend family obligations. you know NF if I liked you I'd feel bad and embarrassed for you that you try and fail miserably to agitate every OW/OM you make contact with. but since I don't like you at all all I can do is laugh...and laugh and laugh..I have to wonder though and believe me its only for a second or two because I can't be bothered spending any more time than that thinking about you or anything... but I wonder are you like this in real life? seriously? how embarrassing for you, I'm sure behind your back everyone is mocking and laughing at you...just like I do...Haha! thanks for laughs Mother Teresa wanna be.
pricillia Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 When someone is unhappy themselves they look to join people into the fun so to speak. She does not understand and never will.... Maybe in her case the OW was so into man stealing but in most of cases there is true love and understanding there. In my particular case I believe that he is with her not because he loves her. He is a deep and caring person that is constantly thinking about his situation... I am confused though not sure where to go from here, I try to walk away but it hard to do so I honestly have never felt this way about a man before at all. I just would like to know to the OW, how do you know if this is true and if you should stick around.... I guess I am just having a hard time.
pricillia Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 When someone is unhappy themselves they look to join people into the fun so to speak. She does not understand and never will.... Maybe in her case the OW was so into man stealing but in most of cases there is true love and understanding there. In my particular case I believe that he is with her not because he loves her. He is a deep and caring person that is constantly thinking about his situation... I am confused though not sure where to go from here, I try to walk away but it hard to do so I honestly have never felt this way about a man before at all. I just would like to know to the OW, how do you know if this is true and if you should stick around.... I guess I am just having a hard time.
peacelove Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 I just now read this. AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!! I love it. And I must say DITTO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
pricillia Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 what is wrong girls, why are you feeling sick?
yousaveme Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 what is wrong girls, why are you feeling sick? Im sick for a few reasons.....My head hurts too many thoughts
pricillia Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Im sick for a few reasons.....My head hurts too many thoughts Me as well, I have been thinking too much I think I pushed him away for good
yousaveme Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Me as well, I have been thinking too much I think I pushed him away for good Is that what you wanted or where trying to do?
pricillia Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Is that what you wanted or where trying to do? That is a good question, I want him in my life, but it is on his terms. He is not the average guy, very deep thinker and very cautious. I talked to him this morning and he usually calls me throughout the day but has not I called him twice and left him one message. I feel like exploding right now you know.
peacelove Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Wow. We've been left alone for a very long time now.
peacelove Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Must be some strong stuff. I wonder how many bs would like to spray us with it???
yousaveme Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Must be some strong stuff. I wonder how many bs would like to spray us with it??? honestly...just used enough for one. the others are fine....
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