Guest Posted December 9, 2006 Posted December 9, 2006 So, here's my problem, it's a bit lame, but thanks for reading anyway. A few months ago, I met this guy at a party. We got talking and found out that we had loads in common, so we exchanged emails and talked very regularly. A few days later, his friend told me he was interested in me (at this point I was interested in him too). I didn't think anything of it at first because we were both a bit drunk at the party so I thought it was the alcohol. Later on, the "signs" came and I realised he did actually like me, but I was tired of waiting around for him to "confess" so I hinted that I knew, and last week I plucked up the courage to tell him I liked him back. He said he didn't want to rush into it. Although I don't want to rush things either, I felt like a complete prat for telling him. Things were awkward for a few days and now they're pretty much back to normal, but I don't know what to do anymore. To make matters worse, his best friend also likes me, but neither knows the other likes me. I've tried using subtle hints to tell his friend that I'm not interested...dunno if it's worked. What are you thoughts...?
amaysngrace Posted December 9, 2006 Posted December 9, 2006 Things were awkward for a few days and now they're pretty much back to normal, but I don't know what to do anymore. Back to normal how? Like before when you guys were chatting it up through email or like before you ever met him?? I'm confused.
Guest Posted December 9, 2006 Posted December 9, 2006 Back to normal how? Like before when you guys were chatting it up through email or like before you ever met him?? I'm confused. back to normal as in...before when we were chatting and meeting up.
whichwayisup Posted December 9, 2006 Posted December 9, 2006 I've tried using subtle hints to tell his friend that I'm not interested...dunno if it's worked. Just come out and tell the bestfriend you ain't interested. And talk to the guy you DO like and go out. If he says no, then back off and see what happens. You don't hear back from him in a week, then move on.
amaysngrace Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Just come out and tell the bestfriend you ain't interested. And talk to the guy you DO like and go out. If he says no, then back off and see what happens. You don't hear back from him in a week, then move on. Yep. Go with the flow that makes YOU comfortable. If he doesn't take it to another level soon enough for your satisfaction, leave the relationship. But don't push him into rushing things. Guys have to initiate the 'conversation'. If the 'more commitment talk' is brought on by the female, guys freak. They have to think it's their idea.
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