Guest Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 I need help!...I don't know what to do!...last night my boyfriend received a call on his cell phone while he was visiting his dying best friend....it was some guy who told him to stay away from me because I was his girlfriend....from this phone call, my boy thinks I am cheating!... I would NEVER EVER do that and I need advice to make him believe me...I don't want to lose him....I love him!.....anywayz...I am also very scared because what if I have a stalker.....I even called the police on it.....they said there was nothing they could do....the number the guy called him from was blocked....I even bought mase today cuz Im scared.....HELP!
IpAncA Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 You need to think here. Have you or your boyfriend pissed off anyone lately? Sounds like someone isn't happy with you or him. Had to of got the number somehow unless he was just doing this randomly. Well this is plan and simple. If your bf doesn't believe you then you have some trust issues that need to be worked out. He should have believed you. Does he know that you called the police and that your scared you might have a stalker or something? And if so, still doesn't believe you?
Krytellan Posted December 9, 2006 Posted December 9, 2006 I would be inclined to think that it is someone who stumbled on the number accidently. Were names used in the call? I think that if there is no truth to this, then the more of a big deal you make it then the more it will seem true. I would seriously just laugh when confronted about what was going on and ask the SO if he/she really thinks I would be stupid enough to give the affiar his number if I was cheating... come on... Seriously, give it very little attention. If your bf chooses to go overboard on it, the nthat's his choice. It's unfortunate for you, but he needs to trust you. Just ask him how stupid he thinks you are.
BeenAround_N_Back Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 If there is trust in the relationship then you needn't be scared? Maybe the person on the other line got the wrong number?
pureinheart Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I know you are in a state of panic....although we cannot control other people and what they think....if your bf chooses not to believe you, then that is his choice and if I were you, I would re-think the relationship anyway and walk away. I have to ask....could your bf be testing you....people do do these things
MOMMIE Posted December 12, 2006 Posted December 12, 2006 Maybe it's a girl whose after your boyfriend and wants him to break-up with you or maybe your boyfriend had someone do it, so he would have a reason to break up with you....Hopefully, none of the above are true but it's just something to think about...If you guys are tight, then your relationship should be fine. Be careful
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