bonehead Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 Those who have read my posts know I was not seperated yet when I got involved with my MW. I had tried to seperate from my ex a number of times. This song says it all. I think it applies to ALOT of people on both sides of this issue. I’ve lied to you The same way that I always do This is the last smile That I’ll fake for the sake of being with you Everything falls apart even the people who never frown eventually break down The sacrifice of hiding in a lie Everything has to end you’ll soon find we’re out of time left to watch it all unwind The sacrifice is never knowing Why I never walked away Why I played myself this way Now I see your testing me pushes me away Why I never walked away Why I played myself this way Now I see your testing me pushes me away I’ve tried like you To do everything you wanted too This is the last time I'll take the blame for the sake of being with you Everything falls apart even the people who never frown eventually break down The sacrifice of hiding in a lie Everything has to end you’ll soon find we’re out of time left to watch it all unwind The sacrifice is never knowing Why I never walked away Why I played myself this way Now I see your testing me pushes me away Why I never walked away Why I played myself this way Now I see your testing me pushes me away Were all out of time this is how we learn how it all unwinds The sacrifice of hiding in a lie Were all out of time this is how we learn how it all unwinds The sacrifice is never knowing why... Why I never walked away Why I played myself this way Now I see your testing me pushes me away Why I never walked away Why I played myself this way Now I see your testing me pushes me away
silentalways Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 yah, its amazing how when the 'fog' clears the things we 'thought' were the problems really weren't and u wake up to the fact that u had a slighty larger share of the breakup ownership thang - and u stop being upset with the one that broke up because u are aware that it was yer actions [not her leaving] that are the issues and thats when u start doing the 'work'.
Author bonehead Posted December 8, 2006 Author Posted December 8, 2006 yah, its amazing how when the 'fog' clears the things we 'thought' were the problems really weren't and u wake up to the fact that u had a slighty larger share of the breakup ownership thang - and u stop being upset with the one that broke up because u are aware that it was yer actions [not her leaving] that are the issues and thats when u start doing the 'work'. I think you got it backwards a little. I did leave. Still with MW. She has filed and is moving in within the next month.
oyster Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 I will be reading these lyrics out loud at home.
Author bonehead Posted December 8, 2006 Author Posted December 8, 2006 I will be reading these lyrics out loud at home. Its about getting out of an unhealthy relationship
Freedom Now Posted December 9, 2006 Posted December 9, 2006 Love it. Bravo, bonehead. Good post... (And they haven't pulled it, yet..that's something in itself. )
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Its about getting out of an unhealthy relationship BH, I've been reading your story and there are a few things that strike my curiousity, if you don't mind. I am an OW and a MW in love with a MM. 1. If you no longer love your W, why don't you divorce her? 2. Do you consider yourself divorced?
GreenEyedLady Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 He said that he left, so I assume yes...
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 No, he said that he moved out, but he hasn't filed the papers yet. Well, the reason that i'm asking is that my MM is separated from his W and is living in his own apartment. But for some odd reason, he's not filed for divorce and neither has she. - Don't get me wrong. I don't want to get together with him again (with a 100% certainty on good days, and 60% on bad days.) It's just that it boggles my mind what kind of person he really is.
GreenEyedLady Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 It's just that it boggles my mind what kind of person he really is. What do you mean KHLF?
stillhere Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 No, he said that he moved out, but he hasn't filed the papers yet. Well, the reason that i'm asking is that my MM is separated from his W and is living in his own apartment. But for some odd reason, he's not filed for divorce and neither has she. - Don't get me wrong. I don't want to get together with him again (with a 100% certainty on good days, and 60% on bad days.) It's just that it boggles my mind what kind of person he really is. My stbxH and i have been separated for almost a year. Neither one of us have filed for divorce yet. Oh, it's gonna happen, but i'm the one who has to do it. There were a few things that had to get taken care of before i filed, but now i'm free and clear to do so. I'm doing it on my own without a lawyer, so my friend is going to help me. I'm not excellent with all that legal crap. So it may mean absolutely nothing, because i'm not getting back with my ex, and i told him that a million times. No chance in h*ll.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 What do you mean KHLF? I can't figure out if he's really just weak-willed and lazy, or if he wants to manipulate his situation with his W by moving out. Nonetheless, he is not someone I'd want to be married to. I just wish that he's completely out of my head.
GreenEyedLady Posted December 10, 2006 Posted December 10, 2006 Nonetheless, he is not someone I'd want to be married to. I just wish that he's completely out of my head. How long has it been over, if you don't mind me asking?
Author bonehead Posted December 11, 2006 Author Posted December 11, 2006 BH, I've been reading your story and there are a few things that strike my curiousity, if you don't mind. I am an OW and a MW in love with a MM. 1. If you no longer love your W, why don't you divorce her? 2. Do you consider yourself divorced? I am divorced.
Freedom Now Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 I THOUGHT so, but I haven't read your whole story so I didn't feel qualified to answer....
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