volleyballchick Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a month now...and we both have myspaces and we both know each others passwords to get on...well he tends to check mine out all the time...he looks through my messages and comments...and i was talking to one of my old friends(who happens to be a guy)...and my boyfriend got kinda jealous...should him wanting to know what i do, who i'm talking to, where i'm at, and who i'm with be a problem???if it is...what should i do???
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 Change your password without telling him and see what his reaction is.. If he gets mad then yes you have a problem...
Krytellan Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 I agree with Critic. Based on his reaction to you changing your password you will be able to tell. However, be prepared that it will look like you are trying to hide something. Also, do you do the same thing to his account? If so, you are being hypocritical. I wish people would just realize they are ALWAYS better off not snooping...
IpAncA Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 Does he has a good reason for checking up on you. Have you been cheating around in the past to make him do this? If not then it is a problem too.
Author volleyballchick Posted December 8, 2006 Author Posted December 8, 2006 i would change it but i know his reaction will be that i am hiding something from him...yes i have kissed another guy in the past...which was like forever ago....and i have been nothing but faithful to him...no i don't check up on him at all...i let him do whatever he wants...we spend like everyday together so i dont see how he could think that ii have time for anyone else but him...i know cheatin on him was wrong and i've tried everything to build his trust again
Art_Critic Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 However, be prepared that it will look like you are trying to hide something. good point.. but she could give him her new password after she gauges his reaction to whether or not there is an issue. People shouldn't share their passwords unless they are married and have a need to ie: banking password You guys are only BF-GF and there is no need to share passwords.. I know you think that it shows trust.. and it somewhat does.. but it also breeds jealousy and mistrust and also misunderstandings for no real reason. Maybe you talk with him about it
Author volleyballchick Posted December 8, 2006 Author Posted December 8, 2006 i have and he said he'll stop but i know he doesn't...and we're supposed to be getting married...he just needs to get out of debt first...and he never really tells me about his past relationships...he says he's barely dated before me...so he has no history...which doesnt help me...bc i don't know what he likes or what he doesnt...and i dont know if he's keepin his ex's from me
rina_r Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 Why exchange passwords at all??? Everyone is entitled to their private space, virtual or not.
Author volleyballchick Posted December 9, 2006 Author Posted December 9, 2006 yes i know....i changed my password...he's tripping over me talking to my old guy friend(after he said i could) so yea idk what to do anymore
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