All_Cried_Out22 Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 Hi to all, I've been with this guy for two years and copule months and everything was cool until he started to tell me he needs his space and he wish that he had met me in the future, so i started to think and feel funny about the word "space" i took it hard and then i backed off for a while and he came to my job one day begging me to stay by his side,i took it hard cause i did'nt want to get hurt and then he started to explain to me that i'm the first person he's ever been in a serious relationship with and for some reason he always hurt people and he dont know whats wrong with him, bla bla bla and i told him i love him and im here for him no matter what and we can work things out,everything was cool for a good while and then he broke up with me,i was so hurt and there has been some drama in between and he was seeing someone while we were apart and then everything died down and months later he proposed infrnt of my mom, we had happiness in our realtionship again and i thought it was to good to be true and eventually he told me that he does'nt want to get married again and he jus want to work on the relationship more, i was devestated and eventually he broke up with me again, i really love and care for him and still want to be with him but should i continue to be a fool and wait until he come around or jus move on? please help!
melodymatters Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 I'm so sorry ! I too have had experiences with men who " change their mind" about what status they want in a relationship. I personally have never done this. If I say, I'll marry you, move in with you, etc, I MEAN it ! I think these guys have to be kind off immature. You really only have two choices : 1) be understanding and loving and wait for him to change his mind AGAIN. or 2) go no contact, and either he will miss you so much he will change his mind, or else its not meant to be. Sorry I don't have a magic bullett, if I did I would have used it myself LOl good luck !
Author All_Cried_Out22 Posted December 7, 2006 Author Posted December 7, 2006 thanks for the advice melodymatters, im just trying to cope and it has been two days without nc
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