Freedom Now Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 It's okay, honey. We know you just woke up!
Chapter2 Posted December 7, 2006 Posted December 7, 2006 You're right about that! Call me when you can:) It's okay, honey. We know you just woke up!
noforgiveness Posted December 8, 2006 Posted December 8, 2006 You do know with all the squabbling that was just done we fed the troll that posted this?
elmejor Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 ... I love how the men lie. They have an active sex life but it's just sex. That's a line honey to get you in the sack. BUT....there's a "sack" at home, and a W who promised to love, honor, and cherish. Why don't these men just go home to their wives, who are always available? Any ideas? EM
noforgiveness Posted December 11, 2006 Posted December 11, 2006 BUT....there's a "sack" at home, and a W who promised to love, honor, and cherish. Why don't these men just go home to their wives, who are always available? Any ideas? EM cake. cake with some fluffy frosting and women lacking in self respect that are more than happy to jump into bed with another womans man. On the reverse why don't these single women go find a man who does not come with attachments and emotional baggage? Why screw someone elses husband? because you can? because it's a triumph? An ego boost? I'll never figure out the attraction of a married man. edit to add this was directed solely at elmejor not at ow who do not fit this description or scenario. Men lie and some ow's have been huge victims.
elmejor Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 "another womans" man? That is a mistake many spouses make, in thinking they own their spouse, because treating a person like personal property does not a happy marriage make. In fact, it may drive a husband into the embrace of another woman, who dare I say just might treat him like a man, and not like one of her personal belongings. Maybe he loves the OW--maybe he doesnt love his wife. It is a sad fact of life that marriages do break down, but, both H and W may find others that they can be happy with. Just remember, a husband who has sex with a woman who is not his wife has broken his marriage vows, but you cannot see that. Trying to change the OW of the world, calling them names on forums, how has that helped your particular situation, NF? Do not worry so much about OW--it is your spouse you need to be concerned with. By the way, your assumptions about me have been hilarious! So thanks for the laughs!
elmejor Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Have you read the posts by NoForgiveness...I would swear you are her ex-bestfriend and her husband's OW... But it could not be the xbf, because the xbf would write "classier" than that poster did? Am I understanding this correctly?.
Guest Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 I really need some advise. I met this wonderful guy. But he is married and to my best friend ( ex). We stopped talking after she found out about me and her husband. We were all friends and I leaned on them alot for support in my own life issues. Well, her husband and I became really close. I would call him and text his phone all the time. We learned to make this work. Like I said we were all friends, His wife who use to be a best friend someone I thought of as family. Found out. She found a text that I had sent him. Since then we havent talked. I believe they are in MC but just to make her happy. I say that because he called me from work today and told me this. I do believe him , because she can be a very bossy person. I asked them how things have been going to he basically told me he is doing what he needs to do. He doesnt hate her, he loves her as a person but doesnt have the passion for her. The desire for her. They have had an active sex life , but for him it was mostly just sex. He would tell me that he sex life with her was boring to him. And so she would never think about anything ( me and him ) he continued having sex with her , but thought of me. My question is this is miss her as a friend but I also miss HIM much more. Should I try and reconnect the friendship with her for my own selfish needs to be closer to him again? Ew just ew. I really hope to god you are a troll. If not, LEAVE THIS POOR WOMAN ALONE!! You were not her friend. You obviously have no clue what the word means at all. The fact that you can even ask yourself if you should fake rekindling friendship to get back with her husband makes me question if you are a sociopath.
Trialbyfire Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 cake. cake with some fluffy frosting and women lacking in self respect that are more than happy to jump into bed with another womans man. On the reverse why don't these single women go find a man who does not come with attachments and emotional baggage? Why screw someone elses husband? because you can? because it's a triumph? An ego boost? I'll never figure out the attraction of a married man. edit to add this was directed solely at elmejor not at ow who do not fit this description or scenario. Men lie and some ow's have been huge victims. :lmao:
Chapter2 Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 I have worked all night so I may just be tired but I don't get it...help me out here Elmejor...have mercy on the sleep deprived. But it could not be the xbf, because the xbf would write "classier" than that poster did? Am I understanding this correctly?.
frannie Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 On the reverse why don't these single women go find a man who does not come with attachments and emotional baggage? Why screw someone elses husband? because you can? because it's a triumph? An ego boost? I'll never figure out the attraction of a married man. Well no, I can't see that you will do if that's the way you're looking at the question
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